Come for the politics, stay for the snark.

Too often we hand the biggest microphones to the cynics and the critics who delight in declaring failure.

If you tweet it in all caps, that makes it true!

Motto for the House: Flip 5 and lose none.

They punch you in the face and then start crying because their fist hurts.

Why is it so hard for them to condemn hate?

People really shouldn’t expect the government to help after they watched the GOP drown it in a bathtub.

White supremacy is terrorism.

A democracy can’t function when people can’t distinguish facts from lies.

“Jesus paying for the sins of everyone is an insult to those who paid for their own sins.”

Not rolling over. fuck you, make me.

There are more Russians standing up to Putin than Republicans.

Anyone who bans teaching American history has no right to shape America’s future.

Narcissists are always shocked to discover other people have agency.

Quote tweet friends, screenshot enemies.

We know you aren’t a Democrat but since you seem confused let me help you.

The republican speaker is a slippery little devil.

Celebrate the fucking wins.

Republicans in disarray!

Putting aside our relentless self-interest because the moral imperative is crystal clear.

Thanks to your bullshit, we are now under siege.

If you are still in the gop, you are either an extremist yourself, or in bed with those who are.

… riddled with inexplicable and elementary errors of law and fact

They were going to turn on one another at some point. It was inevitable.

Historically it was a little unusual for the president to be an incoherent babbling moron.

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  3. 3.

    JustRuss

    I had a tux-cat like that for 18 years. I still miss her, she was very special. Condolences to RR and Grumpy.

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    a hip hop artist from Idaho (fka Bella Q)

    There’s too much of this going on around here. My deepest condolences to Ronnie-Roo and Grumpy. They leave such big paw prints on our hearts. ?

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    ruemara

    Big hugs and support to Ronnie-Roo & Grumpy. My deepest condolences on the passage of Mishka-Roo.

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    The Moar You Know

    Any day could be your last. So treat everyone accordingly, including your kitties and doggies.

    My dog didn’t want to get up this morning, he had a tiring, fun weekend. So I just let him put his head on my arm and sleep in for ten minutes before we went out. I was ten minutes late to work. Best ten minutes of my day.

    Ronnie-Roo and Grumpy, I am truly sorry. People say you get over it, but I disagree. I think you just learn to live with it. Scars are healing, but they are still scars.

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    Mnemosyne

    Oh no! At least Mishka had a good life with lots of love, which is what most of us want out of life. Condolences.

  28. 28.

    Nicole

    I’m so sorry. What a beauty.

    My six-year-old downstairs neighbor’s cat had to be put to sleep last week. He’s being brave, but he’s pretty crushed- he picked her out from the shelter as a kitten, just about two years ago. She was tiny, and stayed tiny, and it turned out she stayed tiny because she was suffering from a pretty rare blood disorder which eventually was too much for her. I feel for him. All our pets are beloved, but I think there’s a special place for the first one. My schnauzer died 30 years ago but I still sometimes dream about her.

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    J R in WV

    So sorry for your loss, folks. Mishka was a sweet looking beautiful kitty, and I know she knew she was loved and cared for. I love our cats all the time, and will make up to them especially well tonight…

    Thanks for passing the word, John.

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    laura

    Ronnie Roo and Grumpy please accept condolences on the loss of your charming Tuxedo Cat. The loss of our friends never goes away, we just come to cope with the loss as the sharp edges dull just enough to bear.
    And thanks to The Moar you Know for the simple truth of what’s important in our day by daying.

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    Original Lee

    So sorry to hear about Mishka-Roo. Deepest condolences to Ronnie-Roo and Grumpy. We had to put our Lucky Dog to sleep last week (liver cancer – at least it was fast). I think this has been a bad year for pets.

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    Gin & Tonic

    Sorry for your loss. But it’s amusing that depending on how you transliterate and pronounce, “Mishka” could be the diminutive word for “mouse” in several Slavic languages. Having a cat named “mouse” is kind of neat.

  33. 33.

    Immanentize

    Sweet Kitty. This another occasion to, as my Dad used to say,: “save your tears for the living.” It is so hard to be left behind.

  36. 36.

    Calming Influence

    Why Did You Go
    E.E. Cummings

    why did you go
    little fourpaws?
    you forgot to shut
    your big eyes.

    where did you go?
    like little kittens
    are all the leaves
    which open in the rain.

    little kittens
    who are called spring,
    is what we stroke
    maybe asleep?

    do you know? or maybe
    did something go away
    ever so quietly
    when we weren’t looking.

    Sincere condolences.

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    Ruckus

    @The Moar You Know:
    I think you just learn to live with it. Hopefully you do. As you get older and the news comes more often it can be a bit more difficult. And one tends to think a bit more of one’s own which doesn’t always help.
    But still, it is what it is.
    Condolences to Ronnie Roo and Grumpy on your loss.

  39. 39.

    raven

    We who choose to surround ourselves
    with lives even more temporary than our
    own, live within a fragile circle;
    easily and often breached.
    Unable to accept its awful gaps,
    we would still live no other way.
    We cherish memory as the only
    certain immortality, never fully
    understanding the necessary plan.
    — Irving Townsend

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    LongHairedWeirdo

    Aw, heck. Poor kitty, and poor people-who-love-the-kitty!

    Hugs and comfort offered (you know, in a discreet; you don’t know who the hell I am, but I do sympathize; sort of manner).

  42. 42.

    Suffragete City elftx

    Very sorry for your loss RR and Grumpy.
    I’d had a dream with all my former kitties in it a month before we ‘found’ our Shadow. I still miss them.

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    Aleta

    I’m very sorry for your loss.

    My ones who are gone even for years now are still holding on to their territory in my heart.

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    RoonieRoo

    Thank you so much Cole. I needed this and I appreciate the BJ community so much. My baby was 18 years old and both Grumpy and I are really struggling with his loss. But seeing all this love from the BJ community and Cole has been so good for my aching heart.

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    J R in WV

    We’re old, and have been saving cats and dogs for a long time now. I can name all the dogs, not so many of them. I tried to name all the cats, and made it all the way. We don’t name our critters quickly, we wait for them to reveal a little about their self first.

    So there were a few cats that didn’t make it that far. Not many, and I can count them, and see them in my mind’s eye easily. 6 all told in 45 years of rescue work. But all of them knew they were home, safe and sound, cared for, snuggled if they would let us. Nearly 20 cats all told, counting the two varmits we have right now.

    Thanks for the e e cummings poem, it was very appropriate. Short and both sweet and sad. He could do a lot with just a few words. I forget the famous guy who wrote a long letter to a friend, then apologized, for the length, saying he was sorry, but he just didn’t have time to write a short one.

    I’ll stop now. ETA: I kinda have to, it’s hard to type with a cat on your shoulder purring, and hanging on with those oh so sharp toenails.

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    Grumpy Code Monkey

    This was a rough one. Mishka isn’t the first cat we’ve lost, but the circumstances around his adoption were special, and he held a unique place in the house. He was a diva like all cats, but in such a way that was more endearing than off-putting. He had a truly unique personality, and we’ve never been able to form a bond with the other cats the way we did with him.

    Thanks for all the kind thoughts.

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    Greenergood

    @RoonieRoo: Sorry you have lost your Mishka – it’s so hard, and it’s hard to explain to people who don’t have an animal companion just how bereft you can feel – they’ll be like ‘get over it, it’s not a child, etc.’ They haven’t got a clue – I hope that soon, but only when you’re ready, that you will fill the cat-soul gap in your lives with another deserving rescue kitteh. Once a home has had a kitteh, it’s very hard not to always have one – it’s part of the soul of your home. Condolences … :-(

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    Shalimar

    Our last cat, Mickey, died 4 hours ago at 14 years old. Maybe I will get another one now, but he was one of four just a couple years ago and I haven’t replaced any of the others as they have passed.

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    No One You Know

    @Grumpy Code Monkey: I’m tearing up…I feel very sad for this. I have a senior cat who is quite ill, myself.

    Love and hugs to you and yours, and may there ever be a pawprint in your heart.

    (Cries, very quietly)

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    Gemina13

    I’m so sorry for your loss of Mishka-Roo. He was a beautiful tuxie, and he sounds like he was an engaging, loving companion.

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