Vistas of a perfect summer afternoon, from ever-reliable gardener and commentor Opie Jeanne:
Pink cranesbill, related to geraniums.
Our back driveway hasn’t been mowed yet this year.
Annie in the jungle under the pear trees.
This white flower is supposed to repel snails and slugs, and I can’t remember its name. I don’t think it does much except for itself.
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What’s going on in your garden(s), this week?
Sister Golden Bear
Greetings from Thailand!
Here for surgery, but got in yesterday and have had the weekend to play tourist. Picked a hotel that’s walking distance of several of the major sights, including the Royal Palace compounds and several of the major temples. Will have to send photos to Alain when I get a chance for the photo threads.
Monday I get picked up and taken to the clinic, which is about an hour away from Bangkok itself. Then it’ll be a battery of tests, and then a day off before the main event on Friday.
You may see me commenting more frequently, since I’ll have time on my hands while I’m recovering. (I’ll be here about four weeks before returning home.)
OzarkHillbilly
You always have the most beautiful garden Opie Jeanne. Love the trellis. I had to remove the trellis I slapped together when we first moved in. I miss having one and someday I will build another and this time do it right.
raven
Nice stuff! Our crape myrtle’s are in full bloom and the kudzu is jumpin!
MattF
OT. An individual who doesn’t care much for the Yankees.
Baud
@Sister Golden Bear: Good luck to you.
OzarkHillbilly
The Cards fired Matheny. Finally. While not exactly a great fan of his I did defend him against some of the more outrageous slings and arrows thrown his way. But this season it became obvious even to me that he just couldn’t get the job done.
JPL
OpieJeanne, Beautiful pictures! Your yard is huge!
@Sister Golden Bear: Happy healing to you.
OzarkHillbilly
@MattF: Heh:
OzarkHillbilly
@MattF: Even better, Yankee (trump) fans:
p.a.
Really nice. Neighborhood gardeners here have seen a changeover from slugs to snails in the last few years. Very seldom saw snails before.
Dorothy A. Winsor
I love how wild that garden looks. It makes me want to be there.
satby
Looks beautiful opiejeanne, and I wouldn’t mow my drive either if the result was a wildflower field.
@Sister Golden Bear: Good luck on the surgery and best wishes for a rapid recovery.
satby
My garden is a mess, weeds taking over the raised beds, drought affecting everything else even though I deep water every few days, and I may have murdered one of my two pots of tomatoes by overstating and not realizing it for a couple of days. One of the currant bushes cut down by the vibe removers is showing a tiny sprout of life, but no signs on the hydrangea that was about to bloom. And the heat and humidity are back, just walking the dogs results in clothes soaked in sweat.
I hate summer. Can’t even enjoy what does bloom.
satby
Autocorrect and no editing… Murdered the pot of tomatoes by overwatering.
It may come back. But I almost don’t care.
Immanentize
Opie Jeanne — great pics! I love your pergola. I have a place where I want one, but haven’t done it yet…. Maybe grapes some day.
Meanwhile, I finally got around to some changes in the weed zone; with professional help. Since last year, everything has been allowed to go to hell in a hand basket. So, I got a company to come and put in some arbor vitae for an eventual screen between my house and the close neighbor. Also had some sod thrown down over the quarter of the yard that burnt up when the big trees came down. They also weeded and mulched my beds. I grilled last night!
Also, I am losing some tomato plants too!
Rutgers, my new favorites. Overwatering? Sun stroke? Wilt? Weeds choked ’em? I don’t know. I have cut them back and hope they return. Onward!
HeleninEire
@Sister Golden Bear: Please feel free to say STFU, Helen, but can I ask what type of surgery you are getting that necessitated you going all the way to Thailand? I would imagine it’s either plastic surgery or a serious problem that you could not afford in the US.
Also, just to prove that I’m not a nosey bitch (well, not a bitch, anyway) I will admit to one or two, um, elective surgeries that were TOTALLY vanity related.
Good luck with the surgery and with the recovery.
OzarkHillbilly
‘We don’t know how it worked’: the inside story of the Thai cave rescue
A textbook they wrote because nobody had ever done anything like this before.
………………………………………..
Much more at the link, most of which echoes my NCRC training. Except for the diving, that was all made up on the spot.
debbie
Your garden and flowers are so beautiful, Opie Jeanne! I especially love your back driveway and hope you won’t need to mow anytime soon.
debbie
@OzarkHillbilly:
Haters just gotta hate. When I’ve followed baseball (a very on and off thing all my life), I’ve been proud to be a Yankees fan.
OzarkHillbilly
@debbie: :-)
rikyrah
Good Morning, Everyone ???
debbie
@OzarkHillbilly:
I still shake my head in amazement at the rescue, and I’d almost bet the most amazing advances that have been made in this world have all been crapshoots.
rikyrah
The garden is so beautiful ??
eclare
Gorgeous photos….
MomSense
@Sister Golden Bear:
Best of luck to you. Hope everything goes well.
Opie Jeanne your garden is beautiful. I love the pergola. I sort of missed the whole beginning of my gardening chores and then the browntail moth has been so bad I haven’t been able to do much else. I still have too many weeds and I didn’t fill in the space where the roses that died off used to be. Ugh. Maybe the next part of the summer will be better.
I mixed in clover with grass seed so I actually have something that looks lush when mowed. I’m hoping to convert my trugreen neighbors to forget about the golf course look since it will never work without spending a fortune on chemicals and water.
chris
@Opie Jeanne: It takes a lot of work to make a beautiful wild garden like that. Well done!
I’m happy I don’t have to do any of that work and can just enjoy the wild flowers all around me like this Marsh Mallow.
Lapassionara
Wonderful garden! Thanks for sharing.
A Ghost To Most
This year has involved reclaiming my yard from the forces of nature after years of partial neglect. Much tree cutting. I even got two beautiful apple walking sticks for my wife and I, lighter and stiffer than the redwood sticks I made in CA 35 years ago.
It sure is nice to see that it is green somewhere; we’re burning up here.
OzarkHillbilly
Royal family ‘snub’ Donald Trump during UK visit Heh:
A Ghost To Most
@MomSense:
“mixed in clover with grass seed so I actually have something that looks lush when mowed. ”
What a good idea. Doesn’t clover fix nitrogen in the soil as well?
MomSense
@OzarkHillbilly:
After what the Orange asshole said about Diana, I can’t imagjne her sons would want to be anywhere near him.
MomSense
@A Ghost To Most:
I think it does. And when the clover blooms it brings lots of bees.
Baud
@rikyrah: Good morning.
satby
@OzarkHillbilly: the Queen was a good sport about inspecting the troops with the troglodyte, if I had been her I would have stopped dead and let him look like the boor he is as he cluelessly walked on. He wouldn’t have even noticed until the end of the line of troops.
Would love The Crown to have this in a further episode, with the royal family discussing what a pig he is.
satby
@rikyrah: Good morning rikyrah ?!
OzarkHillbilly
@A Ghost To Most: @MomSense:
Yes. I do the same, but it’s more because growing grass in this clay/dolomite matrix is almost impossible but clover will grow almost anywhere.
satby
@MomSense: how does it look in a drought? Seriously asking, because I let the grass go dormant and water the trees and shrubs only.
rikyrah
Uh huh
Doug Saunders (@DougSaunders) Tweeted:
Good morning! The Trump administration is lobbying Britain to get the founder of one of the UK’s most dangerous race-hatred groups sprung from prison, for no reason https://t.co/ILrJiIgGLe https://twitter.com/DougSaunders/status/1018070774391898112?s=17
JPL
@OzarkHillbilly: The movie is going to be amazing.
OzarkHillbilly
@satby: I actually watched a short video of that (i usually do all i can to avoid looking at or hearing trump) and my head literally hit my desk.
rikyrah
@Sister Golden Bear:
Good luck with your procedure. Sending you positive thoughts.??
debbie
@rikyrah:
Trump can’t possibly know anything about this guy. Who would be behind this request?
OzarkHillbilly
@JPL: It all depends on who makes it. If James Cameron made it it would most likely be accurate. (he knows caving) Anybody else? My wife and I will probably spend the entirety of it ridiculing all the impossible things they portray and I will give particularly scathing commentary of the imagined rigging.
debbie
@OzarkHillbilly:
Who would play Elon Musk?
MagdaInBlack
Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez
✔
@Ocasio2018
New Rule: anyone that was cool with the GOP inventing $2 trillion out of thin air for freebies for people with yachts that have tiny yachts inside doesn’t get to demand how we pay for people who need chemotherapy treatments.
10:22 AM – Jul 10, 2018
geg6
@OzarkHillbilly:
Yup. Cameron is the only one I can imagine getting it right. He knows caving, like he knows all diving. But does he even direct any more? Can’t remember the last thing he directed since Avatar (which I must say I hated).
JPL
@OzarkHillbilly: What will Trump promise Putin during the one on one meeting. For those who think that Russian interference into our election was a big nothing burger, imagine what happens when they take down our electric grid.
MomSense
@satby:
Clover is drought tolerant because it grows deep roots. It stays green and if you let it get tall, you have little flowers. When it’s mowed it looks nice and dark green. I just mixed it with the grass seed and planted it all together but on the southwest side of my house the grass didn’t do well but the clover filled it in nicely.
The problem I have is that we don’t have enough good soil. The grass wasn’t doing well with such sandy support but the clover seems very happy.
JPL
@debbie: James Woods of course.
OzarkHillbilly
@debbie: Elon Musk. He would insist on it.
Percysowner
Trump trying to make himself look important. Trump hints at the Queen’s private views on Brexit
Apparently she thinks Brexit is “a very complex problem”. because that tells us her deep, personal thoughts
Also, too, Theresa May: Trump told me to sue the EU
I suspect that, were I British, I would never vote for Teresa May, but good on her!
debbie
@JPL:
Very good! I never think of him (happily).
Anyone who’s near a Graeters: Today’s their 148th “birthday,” so they’re selling single scoops for $1.48, about a third their usual price.
debbie
@OzarkHillbilly:
LOL. He may already have a script in the works. He’ll play every role, direct, produce, light, gaff, etc.
debbie
@Percysowner:
Good god. His answers are incomprehensible.
OzarkHillbilly
@debbie: In his movie, he personally takes his submarine in to rescue each and every child by himself, than has to rescue all the cave divers too.
Heidi Mom
As this is a garden thread, thanks to everyone who offered advice about my too-leafy geraniums last summer. Miracle-Gro Bloom Booster really works!
debbie
@OzarkHillbilly:
He does what James Cameron does.
Yarrow
Gorgeous garden! Thanks for sharing the photos. Mine is a mixture of overgrown and neglect at the moment.
germy
Saw Sorry To Bother You and enjoyed it. Great cast and great story.
Waiting patiently now for Stan And Ollie, a new movie about my favorite comedy team’s late-career “comeback” tour.
germy
@OzarkHillbilly:
Sister Golden Bear
Thanks everyone.
@HeleninEire: No worries. I’m trans and it’s “sexual reassignment surgery,” i.e. turning an outie into an innie. (No, contrary to popular misconception they don’t just cut it off, rather the tissue is reused to create a vulva and neo-vagina.)
As far as why go to Thailand? Thai surgeons use a technique that’s more advanced than what’s
typically used in the U.S. — among other things, they do everything in a single operation rather than two operations done a couple months apart, plus the results are better aesthetically (I know of some trans women whose gynos didn’t know they had after-market lady parts until the gyno did an internal exam.) And I’m seeing someone who’s probably the best surgeon in the world for this procedure.
Also because the cost is considerably less, since insurance very rarely covers any of trans-related surgery. Although thankfully there’s now to be a handful of cities and companies that include it in their insurance packages, and it’s had a negligible effect on overall insurance costs.
Standard disclaimer: Not every trans person gets SRS, and they’re no less trans than those us who do. Some don’t feel the needs, others can’t for health reasons, or because of the cost. And for trans men, the results traditionally have been less satisfactory (as one surgeon puts, it’s harder to create a pole than a hole).
OzarkHillbilly
@debbie: Heh. They are egos of another mother.
germy
jeffreyw
Thread needz moar Homer Kitteh!
OzarkHillbilly
@germy: Musk is like trump in that he takes credit for the work of other more capable men.
chopper
@MattF:
NYT or not, that was just perfect.
satby
@jeffreyw: reminds me I’m overdue for submitting kitten updates. Homer’s a cutie!
OzarkHillbilly
@jeffreyw: “Why don’t they ever come down here?”
scav
ooooo, Opie Jeanne, I have aspirations of your back drive for the pasture edge across the road, the one where I’m currently battling blackberries and the other usual suspects. Hoping to work in some poppies as well and there are some serious lupine fans in the neighborhood.
And, to add to the pedant ranking of the jackalariat, cranesbill are Geraniums. “Geraniums” are Pelargoniums. Now you too can have endless confusing conversations, especially if you grow both. I’m personally rather fond of the scented Pelargonium Geraniums and am a bit of a slut with the Cranesbill Geranium end of things. Sanguineums as an aspiration, macrorrhizums as a stalwart companions.
Gin & Tonic
@chopper: That essay reminded me very much of a college student saying: “look at me, I can WRITE! using big words and shit.” Or the old Jon Lovitz SNL routine: ac-TING!
Gin & Tonic
@Sister Golden Bear: Might be a good opportunity to ask, since I don’t ever recall seeing the term when I was growing up, where does “cis” come from?
Ohio Mom
@Sister Golden Bear: Thank you for being so open; I just learned a lot.
Not the least of which is that Thailand is the leader in SRS. I would have guessed someplace in Europe, how far off I would be! I am continually amazed at the small bits of prejudice that lurk within me (I.e., Western countries have the monopoly on medical expertise).
Wishing you a quick and complication-free recovery, and much happiness going forth in your new body.
chopper
@Gin & Tonic:
having previously lived in nyc for a long time, to me the lovecraftian description of the fans was spot-on.
Gin & Tonic
@debbie: It’s the one and only thing I miss from the days when my daughter was at THE Ohio State.
Quinerly
@Sister Golden Bear: Good luck with your surgery. Keeping you in my thoughts.
chopper
@Sister Golden Bear:
good luck and have an easy recovery.
Gin & Tonic
@chopper: Yeah, I lived in NYC too, and now I live in that transition zone where you’ll run into Yankee fans (although fewer) as well as Red Sox fans. But I just couldn’t get past the pretentiousness of the prose.
Quinerly
Beautiful garden pictures.
?❤️????
JPL
Things you learn when you listen to Trump. His father was born in Germany and the EU is a foe. shame
Yarrow
@Sister Golden Bear: Sending good thoughts for your surgery and subsequent recovery. Sounds like you are in good hands with your surgeon.
OzarkHillbilly
@Gin & Tonic: The essay was an exercise in fun with the English language. I once wrote a piece about a cave survey trip in which the dialogue was entirely in my own head. As a union carpenter my 2nd language is Cursing and what goes on in my head is far worse than anything that ever exits my mouth. So just for the hell of it I replaced every curse word with perfectly acceptable words and phrases one might read in the daily paper.
It never ended up in any of the caving journals I regularly contributed to (it made the editors too “uncomfortable”) but I still had fun coming up with a dozen new and different ways to say “fuck” and “shit”.
japa21
@JPL: I just heard that. The EU is a foe. Russia is a foe is some respects. Going on again about it all being Obama’s fault for the hacking. Also, they tried to hack RNC but RNC had better defenses and DNC should be ashamed. I believe that, in fact, the RNC was hacked. And once again, no condemnation of Russia.
rikyrah
@Quinerly:
Morning to Poco and the tribe ??
SiubhanDuinne
@Percysowner:
OMG:
MagdaInBlack
@japa21:
Did Obama force them to take and use the hacked information, as well?
“Will no one save me from my own stupidity?”
Good lord, they make my head hurt.
*The flowers help tho, thank you ?
Gelfling 545
@jeffreyw: The mighty hunter awaits his prey?
chopper
@SiubhanDuinne:
“what things do they grow? uh, they grow corn, or as the indians call it, ‘maize’. in short, england is a land of contrasts”
OzarkHillbilly
@MagdaInBlack:
Yes. I have seen the email from Obama in which he threatened an amphibious landing of US Marines at trump tower if trump did not in fact accept the hacked info.
MagdaInBlack
@OzarkHillbilly:
Leaked by Mr. Nunes, no doubt?
Sister Golden Bear
@Ohio Mom: I was here about a decade ago to accompany a friend when she had her SRS, and the Thai hospitals are comparable to anything in the States, and Thailand does a lot of medical tourism of all kinds. Enough so that the hospital where I’ll be has a whole section of it’s website (in English) devoted to touting its medical tourism capabilities. IIRC, awhile back the Thai government decided to develop medical tourism as one of the countries industries.
But other countries as well. I went to Buenos Aires for what’s referred to as “facial feminization surgery” — reshaping the face in various ways, most notably reducing the brow ridge and the shape of the jaw, which are both characteristics of male anatomy. (I had a dozen procedures done during the course of two surgeries 10 day apart). There’s a particular way of changing the brow ridge (which involved excising and resetting the frontal bone over the sinuses) that’s so specialized that there’s literally only a half-dozen surgeon worldwide who are truly expert at it — three in the U.S. two in Europe, and the surgeon I saw in Buenos Aires, who I personally think is the best of all them.
Again the hospital was on par with those in the States and the after-care was definitely far better. I spent one night in the hospital for observation after each surgery, and the rest of the recovery time was spent at a apartment I rented for a month. Every three days, one of the three surgeons on the surgical team came to the apartment to do follow-ups — I didn’t even have to go to their clinic for that.
The surgeon here operates five days a week, and does enough patients that a hotel next to his clinic reserves for two floors for his patients (you’re in the hospital for a week post-op and then discharged to stay at the hotel for another 2-1/2 weeks). Works out well, since his nurses do rounds daily at the hotel, in addition to doing the formal follow-ups at the clinic every couple days.
In both cases, thanks to the differences in cost of living in those countries, the cost is less than what things would cost in the States, even when you include airfare and having stay somewhere for a month.
Elizabelle
@Sister Golden Bear:
Chiming in with a good luck, and keep us posted. Plus, didn’t you lose your mom not too long ago? You have had a lot on your plate.
I have some friends who head to Thailand every year or so for concierge level checkups; they love the medical care there, and just do bare bones/catastrophic policies in the US. Medical tourism is a big deal, and a smart choice.
debbie
@japa21:
“Not my fault that I was committing traitorous crimes; it’s the black guy’s fault for not stopping me!”
debbie
@Sister Golden Bear:
Best of luck for a speedy and eventless recovery!
Amir Khalid
@Gin & Tonic:
I agree about the writing style: undisciplined, full of flourishes that call attention to themselves rather than to what the writer is trying to say. It’s needlessly hard going for the reader, who must put that much more effort into following the argument.
By the way, the World Cup final has just kicked off. Shouldn’t Alain’s post be up?
OzarkHillbilly
@MagdaInBlack: It came from an individual requesting anonymity connected to Congress with total access to all classified intelligence reports. I can not mention his name but his initials are Kash Patel.
Steeplejack (phone)
@Percysowner:
Trump (from the interview):
It’s official: the President is the stupidest client on every sales rep’s contact list.
A Ghost To Most
@OzarkHillbilly: I have no problem with clover in a lawn. I wonder if it would take the dry we get here? I’m thinking about setting up a beehive; clover would be a plus for honey.
OzarkHillbilly
@OzarkHillbilly: Ooooopps.
SiubhanDuinne
@Sister Golden Bear:
I want to add my best wishes to you for a smooth and successful surgery, and my thanks for your clear explanations and insights into what the transition entails (I never thought about the facial reconstruction, for instance). If you feel up to it, I hope you’ll continue to comment during your weeks of recovery (and of course when you return home!)
Good luck to you!
FlyingToaster
@scav: I grow both types as well; for the neighbors, I call the ones in the ground “perrenial” geraniums, and the scented ones in the pots “annuals”. The perennials work great as ground cover in partially shaded areas (hence, the street corner under the dogwood and sweetspurs), and the scenteds are grand in the flower pots out front plus the parsley pot on the patio. But the pelargoniums can’t survive a Bwahstin Wintah.
A Ghost To Most
@Sister Golden Bear: Best of luck on your journeys.
SiubhanDuinne
@Amir Khalid:
It is, or at least it was.
Gelfling 545
Lovely garden. The hydrangea is stunning and I have made a not to self to use more crane’s bill.
Speaking of hydrangea does anyone know ehat would cause bigleaf hydrangea to stop blooming? My daighter has 4 and 3 have not bloomed for 2 seasons now. They were planted by the previous owner and bloomed regularly for the first few years they lived there. My research has come up with nothing about mature plants suddenly ceasing to bloom that would effect some but not all of a group in the same location.
OzarkHillbilly
@A Ghost To Most: Where do you live?
Gelfling 545
@Sister Golden Bear: Best wishes for your surgery and a swift recovery.
Quinerly
@rikyrah: Tail wags, meows, and waves back to you. ?
JPL
@japa21: His grandfather was born in Germany, so why lie about his own father. I assume that Trump no longer knows the truth.
Steeplejack (phone)
@SiubhanDuinne:
Just saw this. Great minds, etc.
MagdaInBlack
@OzarkHillbilly:
Do you recall the novel “The Gang That Couldn’t Shoot Straight” ? > Jimmy Breslin.
Yeah, these guys.
JPL
@japa21: The hack on the RNC was for blackmail purposes only, and it’s working out quite well.
scav
@FlyingToaster: My scenteds can’t even survive a Northwestern wintah, although I managed to overwinter mine this year in the garage successfully (not sure that would have flown for the traditional Chicago cold spell). I might very well steal your annual v. perennial trick.
Immanentize
@JPL: this. But surely Mueller has whatever was hacked?
Mnemosyne
@Percysowner:
One of the British papers pointed out that the outfit that QEII wore was the same one she wore for an anniversary of the European Union — it’s the same blue as the EU flag.
That’s her opinion of Brexit right there.
JPL
@Immanentize: You betcha!
Mnemosyne
@Sister Golden Bear:
As I’m sure you know, with any kind of surgery it’s always best to see the doctor who does successfully it all the time, so it sounds like you made a good choice. I hope the surgery goes smoothly and you heal well woth your new aftermarket parts. ?
J R in WV
@debbie:
Yes. I suspect Mueller’s investigators attempting to have an interview with him would be useless! His baffle-gab would be non-responsive except for accidental off the cuff remarks.
He doesn’t remember what he had for breakfast, much less what he knew about meetings with his Russian handlers back nearly two years ago now.
A Ghost To Most
@OzarkHillbilly: Golden, CO. Right down the street from the Coors brewery.
Elizabelle
@ Opie Jeanne: Have scrolled through photos of your splendid garden (and cat) a few times now. Thank you for sharing.
I really like the colors you’ve painted your outdoor furniture, too. You have an eye for color.
HeleninEire
@Sister Golden Bear: Wow. Good luck to you. Keep us informed of your progress.
J R in WV
@Sister Golden Bear:
Best wishes for good health outcomes Sister G B!!
Take care and do keep us posted!!
J R in WV
OpieJeanne:
Thanks for the photos. I will confess, I have not found the critter in that photo, yet.
No, No, no clues, please, everyone, it’s like a puzzle now!
J R in WV
Oh, there he is….how did I miss him!!!
Miss Bianca
@Sister Golden Bear: Good luck!
opiejeanne
@JPL: It’s just under an acre. A horse acre, meaning about .8 of an acre.
And the weeds are unrelenting this year. I had my second cataract surgery on July 3 and have been unable to deal with them since the end of May. No bending over from the waist for a month after each one, no lifting heavy stuff. And the heck of it is that NOW I CAN SEE ALL THE WEEDS!!!! And the dust in the house is terrible, because now I can see that too but I’m not supposed to mess with that either. I think I’ll put on Dave’s safety glasses and dustmop the house.
opiejeanne
@OzarkHillbilly: Oh my gosh,, that is so perfect. although they have been a lot more polite in Angels stadium these past few years and it was the asshole RedSox fans who fit this description more recently. When we had season tickets, 1979-1981 (shared with three other couples) we used to sell the Yankees game tickets to friends because that’s the only time we saw drunken brawling in the seats, and those were not the cheap outfield seats.
No One You Know
Pretty garden! Looks like a nice place to be.
I’ve installed a foxglove corner tucked into the back fence corner, and a small border of yarrow for butterflies.
I dropped some extra crocosmia corms in a light shade location last year, among the Siberian bugwort, and they have multiplied like crazy from all the extra water. The hummingbird traffic is fun to watch.
The Lodger
@Sister Golden Bear: Best wishes for your surgery and a thorough recovery, and thanks for being willing to share what’s going on with you. I never suspected Thailand would have the best setup for that kind of procedure.
Mnemosyne
@opiejeanne:
Or, you know, hire a cleaning crew to come do it for you while you go out for some coffee. As I’m sure your husband and children would like me to remind you, that would be WAY cheaper than having to get your eyes re-done. ?
Sister Golden Bear
Probably a dead thread, but just wanted to thank everyone again for the well wishes.
@Elizabelle: Yes, Mom died two weeks ago. It has been a lot. Silver-lining is that everything happened while I was still there. Mom had wanted me to go ahead with the surgery — the waiting list is more than a year-and-a-half — and my worst fear was that she would die while I was here and unable to return.
@SiubhanDuinne: I’ll probably be commenting more than usual, since I live near San Francisco and my day job is really busy, so normally I only get a chance to comment on the late-night threads. Though there’s likely to be radio silence from the 20th-27th while I’m in the hospital, since I’ll be on some pretty heavy pain killers.