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Bedtime Respite Open Thread: “Hair Love”

by Anne Laurie|  December 10, 201910:01 pm| 42 Comments

This post is in: Nature & Respite, Popular Culture, Something Good Open Thread

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#HairLove, an animated short film from @MatthewACherry, tells a touching story about a father learning to do his daughter’s hair for the first time. pic.twitter.com/g18uHroJwK

— Sony Pictures Animation (@SonyAnimation) December 5, 2019

(Thanks to commentor Rikyrah)

Many of you have already seen it by now, but hey, cartoons are made for re-watching…

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  1. 1.

    lamh36

    December 10, 2019 at 10:03 pm

    @MichelleObama

    FollowingFollowing @MichelleObama

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    I had so much fun putting a smile on all of these little faces from Randle Highlands Elementary School in Washington, D.C. Thanks to the @TheEllenShow for letting me be a part of #EllensGreatestNight!
    https://twitter.com/MichelleObama/status/1204578697656840192

     

    I love the litle girl’s reaction. Young as she is, she instantly recognized Michelle Obama!!!

    LOL..love it!

  2. 2.

    lamh36

    December 10, 2019 at 10:03 pm

    Heads up POU peeps! Sunday night, December 15, the 2019 Kennedy Center Honors performance ceremony ais on CBS!!! These years honorees include EWF, Linda Ronstadt, Sally Field and Sesame Street!!!!

    Preview Of 2019 Kennedy Center Honors https://newyork.cbslocal.com/video/4231860-preview-of-2019-kennedy-center-honors/#.XfBZ_5cEGO4.twitter

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    lamh36

    December 10, 2019 at 10:09 pm

    @lamh36: shoot cut and paste and one time edit function…. POU should be BJ…dangit

  4. 4.

    NotMax

    December 10, 2019 at 10:13 pm

    @lamh36
    POU? EWF?

    Mr. Cole is not stingy with pixels. For the uninitiated, words can be typed out without fear of creating a shortage.

  5. 5.

    Jay

    December 10, 2019 at 10:14 pm

    for those asking, this is kehinde wiley’s rumors of war – it is a black man on a horse, modeled after the JEB stuart confederate statue here in richmond. https://t.co/x7cy4whXmT— molly conger (@socialistdogmom) December 10, 2019

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    lamh36

    December 10, 2019 at 10:15 pm

    @NotMax: meh…it was a cut and paste from twitter…who’s gonna take the time to type out all the words, defeats the purpose of cuttin’ and pastin’

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    Omnes Omnibus

    December 10, 2019 at 10:17 pm

    @NotMax: EWF = Earth Wind & Fire.

  8. 8.

    jackmac

    December 10, 2019 at 10:21 pm

    First time seeing this. Absolutely delightful.

  9. 9.

    O. Felix Culpa

    December 10, 2019 at 10:32 pm

    Frickin’ onions <sniff>.

  10. 10.

    Mary G

    December 10, 2019 at 10:46 pm

    My PC speakers still aren’t working, so I’m putting this here to watch on the tablet later. The smiles are wonderful even without the sound.

    I had so much fun putting a smile on all of these little faces from Randle Highlands Elementary School in Washington, D.C. Thanks to the @TheEllenShow for letting me be a part of #EllensGreatestNight!pic.twitter.com/3lOWaUAqQY— Michelle Obama (@MichelleObama) December 11, 2019

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    debbie

    December 10, 2019 at 10:48 pm

    A very sweet animation. What a dad!

  12. 12.

    zhena gogolia

    December 10, 2019 at 10:49 pm

    We just enjoyed “The Crimson Kiss” (Perry Mason, 1957). The prop people went bananas on this one. One ugly statuette and table lamp after another.

  13. 13.

    ...now I try to be amused

    December 10, 2019 at 10:54 pm

    I like the way Dad motivated himself by seeing the Hair Monster as an opponent to be defeated. Its “Bring it” gesture made me bust out laughing.

  14. 14.

    Sab

    December 10, 2019 at 10:58 pm

    Hairlove makes me sniffle every time I see it.

    I am white with straight hair that cannot be styled. If I sleep on it wet and  it’s bent when I wake up, that is it until next time I wash it.

    And that of course is whole diferent world from my black granddaughters. Their hair is always difficult to deal with, but it always has options that are not dependent on the last perfect haircut.

    My hair is always practical and sensible, but cannot ever be elegant or interesting. Just the best sensible for doing housework cut.

    But my oldest granddaughter cut her hair off to a half inch long. She has a pretty head so it looks good. I would look like a troll if I had ever done that. She looks very pretty, but I worry. Was this a sensible choice, or was she making some sort of cutting herself statement.

  15. 15.

    ruemara

    December 10, 2019 at 11:11 pm

    @Sab: No, she just wants to spend less time on her hair. Everyone who doesn’t have to deal with black hair loves the curls and versatility. But they don’t have to deal with it daily. Unfortunately, it grows back and you find long or short, your hair takes so much time.

  16. 16.

    bemused senior

    December 10, 2019 at 11:14 pm

    This film really spoke to me. My granddaughter is 4 and has very curly hair. Her mom is white, her dad is Puerto Rican. Every morning I watch the process of her mom fixing her beautiful hair without causing tears. Meanwhile my hair is starting to grow back from chemo. She and her twin brother pet my head in the morning and celebrate that I have hair again, albeit a very short and mannish amount.

  17. 17.

    TS (the original)

    December 10, 2019 at 11:16 pm

    @lamh36: This one is amazing – the love they all have for Michelle Obama is nothing that money can buy.

  18. 18.

    O. Felix Culpa

    December 10, 2019 at 11:22 pm

    @ruemara: I never thought about black hair being different – in terms of how one has to care for it – until an Asian-American friend of mine living in a predominantly white suburb adopted a young black girl and was at wit’s end about how to care for her hair. My friend happened to see a random black woman walking down the street one day and ran to ask her for advice. This was in the era before the internet.

  19. 19.

    Sab

    December 10, 2019 at 11:37 pm

    @ruemara: Thank you. I needed to hear/ read that.

  20. 20.

    Kent

    December 10, 2019 at 11:38 pm

    new Quinnipiac national poll on 2020 general election shows every prospective Democratic nominee beating Trump :Biden 51%, Trump 42%Sanders 51%, Trump 43%Warren 50%, Trump 43%Bloomberg 48%, Trump 42%Buttigieg 48%, Trump 43%Klobuchar 47%, Trump 43%— John Harwood (@JohnJHarwood) December 10, 2019

  21. 21.

    Kent

    December 10, 2019 at 11:39 pm

    OK…where’s the instructions on how to embed a tweet properly?  That clearly wan’t the right way.

  22. 22.

    rikyrah

    December 10, 2019 at 11:41 pm

    @Sab:

    Probably a statement.. Finding her way.

     

    as India Arie  sings: I am not my hair

     

    if she is a young Black girl rocking a TWA( teeny weeny Afro), she is definitely going through a self-defining stage. Bless her for being so young when she did it. Took me to the age of 30 to do it. From where I sit, she is far ahead of the game.

  23. 23.

    NotMax

    December 10, 2019 at 11:41 pm

    Oh that pesky hoo-mon hair.

    :)

  24. 24.

    Jeffro

    December 10, 2019 at 11:42 pm

    Just reposting from below: Bill Kristol (yes, I know) says “Speaker Pelosi…has done a pretty damn good job so far, I’m just going to say I’m fine with whatever she decides”

    Am I high?  I don’t think I am, but nevertheless, events overtake…

    Dems, please try and make some hay outta this…”even lifelong conservatives/Republicans trust Dem leadership vs. trumpovian corruption”…

  25. 25.

    rikyrah

    December 10, 2019 at 11:43 pm

    @Kent:

    did you clip the code and paste it in the TEXT tab?

  26. 26.

    Kent

    December 10, 2019 at 11:57 pm

    @rikyrah: Yes, with the code button clicked.  Do I just leave off the code button?

  27. 27.

    Kent

    December 10, 2019 at 11:58 pm

    new Quinnipiac national poll on 2020 general election shows every prospective Democratic nominee beating Trump :Biden 51%, Trump 42%Sanders 51%, Trump 43%Warren 50%, Trump 43%Bloomberg 48%, Trump 42%Buttigieg 48%, Trump 43%Klobuchar 47%, Trump 43%— John Harwood (@JohnJHarwood) December 10, 2019

    Trump is basically at 42/43 against everyone. Only the top line changes based mainly on name recognition and familiarity I’m guessing.

  28. 28.

    laura

    December 10, 2019 at 11:59 pm

    @bemused senior: Dear bemused senior, even if your crown is not currently visible, it is most assuredly present.

  29. 29.

    rikyrah

    December 11, 2019 at 12:00 am

    @Kent:

    I know this tweet. I posted it. It does not do it in the list form. This is how the tweet comes out for we posters who are not FrontPagers.

  30. 30.

    Jay

    December 11, 2019 at 12:01 am

    @Kent: 

    The easiest way I have found is to click the embed feature in twitter, copy code,

    Select the text form and paste.

    And that’s it.

  31. 31.

    rikyrah

    December 11, 2019 at 12:01 am

    Makes me ??? everytime.

  32. 32.

    Kent

    December 11, 2019 at 12:01 am

    @rikyrah:  Yeah.  OK.  I was just messing around.  I never tried posting a tweet before.  That was just a late night experiment.   I guess all the full blown completely formatted tweets I see posted are just from front pagers, even if they show up in the comment threads.

  33. 33.

    Jay

    December 11, 2019 at 12:04 am

    @rikyrah:

    in the text form you should see <br and >br marking the spacing,

     

    if you manually introduce the spacing, it works,

  34. 34.

    Jay

    December 11, 2019 at 12:06 am

    new Quinnipiac national poll on 2020 general election shows every prospective Democratic nominee beating Trump :

    Biden 51%, Trump 42%

    Sanders 51%, Trump 43%

    Warren 50%, Trump 43%

    Bloomberg 48%, Trump 42%

    Buttigieg 48%, Trump 43%

    Klobuchar 47%, Trump 43%

    — John Harwood (@JohnJHarwood) December 10, 2019

  35. 35.

    Mnemosyne

    December 11, 2019 at 12:08 am

    @Sab:

    Black Twitter and Facebook have been blowing up with happiness because the new Ms. Universe is an African woman with very short hair who absolutely rocks it. So it’s a totally valid aesthetic choice and nothing to worry about.

  36. 36.

    rikyrah

    December 11, 2019 at 12:12 am

    @Sab: Hair is so complicated for Black women.

    I am from the last generation of young Black girls whose mothers really didn’t know how to care for our natural hair.

    THAT is why this cartoon touches so many in the Black community.

    The little girl is growing up in a home with both parents rocking their natural hair.

    The mother is a YouTube natural hair vlogger. I only knew what to do with my natural hair because of these vloggers.

    Zuri has a head full of beautiful, thick, natural hair. Hair that is healthy and well taken care of.

    To grow up, from birth, knowing  what your natural hair looks and feels like…I didn’t know what my natural hair looked or felt like, until I was 30 years old. When I tell you that I get emotional just thinking about the self love and acceptance that this little girl in the cartoon, and the ones in real life, who are growing up with the total opposite of my hair journey???

  37. 37.

    ruemara

    December 11, 2019 at 12:19 am

    @rikyrah: Sorta same. For us, it was a rite of female passage when you got old enough to get your first taste of the creamy crack for straightened hair. When I went natural a few years ago, I did a big chop, but literally was nothing easy about it, even short.

    I keep it texlaxed now and my hair is back to my usual lengths. I figured if it’s a PITA short, and it’s a PITA long, might as well stick to the length I like. But I did manage to learn how to braid it into at least 2 styles.

  38. 38.

    Kent

    December 11, 2019 at 12:35 am

    On the black hair topic.

    I spent a decade teaching science at a big diverse high school in Central Texas.  During any given school year perhaps 1/3 to 1/2 of my students were black.   One subject I taught was environmental science which meant lots of outdoor labs as the school bordered on a woodlands with a stream running through it so lots of opportunities to get outside and see nature.  I also did lots of physics labs outside.  Model rockets, that sort of thing.

    I always remember every year I would have certain black girls who would say “Mr. ______.   I’m not going outside.   I just did my hair and YOU don’ t know black hair.   I can’t take this hair outside!  Usually on hot humid Texas days.  I never really did figure out if they were being really serious or just trying to get out of class.  I probably should have asked one of the moms or black teachers but I never did.

  39. 39.

    Kent

    December 11, 2019 at 12:41 am

    PS….should I be capitalizing Black?  Or does it matter?

  40. 40.

    phdesmond

    December 11, 2019 at 12:45 am

    @NotMax: how very apt!

  41. 41.

    Darkrose

    December 11, 2019 at 3:20 am

    @rikyrah: My mom wore her hair in a short natural starting when I was around 5. I was unhappy at first, but I soon couldn’t imagine it any other way. I kept straightening mine until I was around 25, and then I got tired of spending large amounts of money and time on it for it to feel like straw. I go in every 6-8 weeks and get it trimmed down, and it’s wonderful.

    What really makes me happy is seeing the young black and brown women at the community college where I work. Many have braids, some have locs, some straighten it, some have varying styles of afros, and many have beautiful vibrant colors. Most of them are proud of their hair and enjoy it in ways that I could never have imagined growing up.

  42. 42.

    donnah

    December 11, 2019 at 9:16 am

    My Caucasian sister married an Asian man and their beautiful daughter has gorgeous, thick, black hair.  As the mom of three boys, I was overjoyed to finally have a little girl whose hair I could brush and braid and style, if only for the few days they would visit.

    To our dismay, that thick, glossy hair refused to stay braided, curled, or even hold a pretty barrette. Everything we put in just slid right out. I had never seen anything like it.

    Now she’s a teenager and wears it about shoulder length without adornment. She craves curls,  but knows that her hair has a life of its own and will not be wrangled.

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