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You are here: Home / Balloon Juice / Make The World A Better Place / Acts of Kindness: We Are All Flavored Differently

Acts of Kindness: We Are All Flavored Differently

by TaMara|  May 30, 20236:59 pm| 89 Comments

This post is in: Make The World A Better Place, We All Need A Little Kindness

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Trying to rejoin the living. I was waylaid by a terrible flu at the end of April/beginning of May and it’s just dragged on for weeks. Meanwhile, adulting didn’t stop – broken dishwasher, mysterious code on the car that the service techs can’t figure out, topped off with back-to-back wind/hail storms that shredded my roof. AND I had just planted my tomatoes and peppers – luckily I only lost one tomato. The walls of water saved the day.

So, I’ve been busy. Right now making quick decisions on house colors so we can get the right gutters up that won’t need to be painted. The roof is a no-brainer – it’s very light grey now and we’ll be going as light as possible because light roofs make life better (see info here).

Don’t know how much posting I’ll be doing, but hopefully, this will remind you there are good things out there.

I’ve been trying to stay far from Twitter, so lots of YouTube – I don’t usually recommend blocking ads, but it really helps if you’re watching a lot of videos. YMMV.

Let’s get started!

Nibby!

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An Ohio dad found a sweet way to ensure that his kids with special needs have employment opportunities — and now their business has become a community favorite!

Joel Wegener told NBC affiliate WLWT that he decided to buy an ice cream truck in April after realizing that it may be a challenge for his two adult kids, Josh, 18, and Mary Kate, 21, to receive a job offer because they both have Down syndrome.

“It started out as an idea to sell ice cream, now it’s so much bigger than that,” explained Joel, who also shares eight other biological children with his wife Freida.

“Mary Kate just finished up at Pathways [a program for individuals with varying abilities] and when people asked her, she’s always said, ‘I wanna work with Papa,'” he added to the outlet. “But then when we started talking about this ice cream business, it was just a natural [thing] to bring her in and also bring Josh in.”

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I swear, in my head, I posted a full thread about Great Dane therapy dogs, but it looks like that never happened, so I’ll sprinkle all the videos I have through subsequent kindness posts. Here’s the first one:

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Steve Hartman bringing the kindness, as always. Also, this story on Doreen Ketchens is worth your time especially if you like jazz and happy endings.

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Trigger alert – lost dog reunited with widowed owner:

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Finish up with this – one of my favorite follows. Patrick Dexter plays his cello outside, showing off the great landscape of Ireland.

One thing I learned from the recent storms, my pups can sleep through anything – but raccoons bothering their ducks, of course.

Acts of Kindness: Lost is Found

Jasper and Trixie demonstrating their sleeping skills.

Acts of Kindness: Lost is Found 1

Nora (muddy one) and Nick are not fans of the hail. Luckily the worst storm happened after they were in bed. The second one happened in the afternoon, with gale-force winds just slamming us. I couldn’t get outside to help them, nor could I coax them into the house. But being smart ducks, they finally figured out if they snuggled up under the bushes next to the fence that was blocking the wind, they could manage. I thought they were quite clever to figure out which fence to hide next to – because only one length of fencing blocked the gusts.

Okay, that’s it for tonight. Remember to be kind to yourself. Share any good news in the comments.

 

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  1. 1.

    Baud

    May 30, 2023 at 7:03 pm

    From Reddit, a nice story of generations.

    https://www.harrisnecklandtrust.org/amelia-s-song

  2. 2.

    Adam L Silverman

    May 30, 2023 at 7:04 pm

    There’s always room for cello.

    What? Someone had to say it.

  3. 3.

    brendancalling

    May 30, 2023 at 7:11 pm

    It’s been a hard day with no good news except that my weed guy came through. And after today, I could definitely do with a toke. So let’s hear it for the weed guy—coming through when you need him!

  4. 4.

    SiubhanDuinne

    May 30, 2023 at 7:14 pm

    Nice beaver :-)

  5. 5.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:28 pm

    Can someone help me decipher Trixie in that photo?

    I see the red collar, and I see the 4 paws.  But I cannot make out what the rest of the parts are.  And I think that maybe there there is a nose by the two paws where one is crossed over the other.  Though I can’t make out any eyes, open or closed, so I am very confused.

    But I simply can not make out a face or a recognizable body part.  Is that a very large ear draped over Jasper’s face?

  6. 6.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:29 pm

    @SiubhanDuinne: Had to be said.

  7. 7.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:31 pm

    @WaterGirl: yes, Trixie flopped her ear over Jasper’s face. You can build out from there.

  8. 8.

    MomSense

    May 30, 2023 at 7:32 pm

    I hear you about adulting.  My mom called me saying she had a fender bender and then a cryptic comment about panicking.  Well the entire back and side of her car is messed up and the mirror is gone. It was sufficiently bad that she has decided not to drive anymore.  For the last year, driving was just about a mile and a half to the downtown.
    Anyway she has some bruising on her face and a small scrape on her forehead.
    Today she took the local shuttle bus on the whole route to confirm she can get to her various medical appointments.
    We are also dealing with some cognitive changes and the anger / frustration that goes with it.

  9. 9.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:34 pm

    @Manyakitty:

    You can build out from there.

    I tried, but I cannot find her face.  Is what I thought was her nose actually her nose?

  10. 10.

    Joy in FL

    May 30, 2023 at 7:34 pm

    I hope you are feeling better each day. What a time you’ve had!
    Thanks for all kindness that moves you to post these kindness posts : )

  11. 11.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:34 pm

    @MomSense: ugh. Frustrating for everyone. So glad nobody was seriously injured and that she made the decision to hang up her keys. Strength.

  12. 12.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:35 pm

    @MomSense: That’s rough.  She must have really been frightened to give up driving that way.  That part is probably for the best.

  13. 13.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:36 pm

    @WaterGirl: the floppy ear is her right. Her head is relatively straight, so trace back from her ear to the middle of her forehead and then down her nose.

  14. 14.

    Dorothy A. Winsor

    May 30, 2023 at 7:36 pm

    @WaterGirl: I had that same problem!

  15. 15.

    JPL

    May 30, 2023 at 7:36 pm

    @MomSense: that is so sad and it happens with age.  Since I’m in my seventies, I fear what my sons will have to help with.

  16. 16.

    Dorothy A. Winsor

    May 30, 2023 at 7:43 pm

    @MomSense: Thank goodness there’s a shuttle bus she can use.

  17. 17.

    JaySinWA

    May 30, 2023 at 7:44 pm

    We Are All Flavored Differently
    Am I the only one that gets a “How to Serve Man” vibe from this title?

  18. 18.

    JPL

    May 30, 2023 at 7:44 pm

    My eldest grand imp (4) was in the toddler program at the local Montessori school and was taught how to bake biscuits.   He became concerned because no one baked biscuits for Mr. Mohammad who was the grounds keeper.  He was allowed to bake biscuits for him and it was well received.  Tears flowed.

    Now two years later he is still the same way even though he is in primary.

    OMG Since I have him and his little bro Thursday thru Friday, I’ll report how sweet he is.  ha

  19. 19.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:45 pm

    @Manyakitty: So are Trixie’s eyes shut, and she has white / spotted eyelids, as well?

  20. 20.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:45 pm

    @Dorothy A. Winsor: Oh, good!  It’s not just me.

  21. 21.

    Dan B

    May 30, 2023 at 7:47 pm

    @WaterGirl: Her nose is directly above the edge of the sofa.

  22. 22.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:47 pm

    @WaterGirl: yes

  23. 23.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:48 pm

    @WaterGirl: it took me several looks 😄

  24. 24.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:48 pm

    @JPL: So sweet of him!  I’m sure everyone was proud.

    A friend of mine had a son in kindergarten.  The teacher was apparently kind of crabby with a short fuse one day, and my friend’s son walked up to the teacher and said, “Mrs. Wilson, I think you need a hug.”  And he proceeded to do just that.

    I suspect he learned that at home. So sweet!  :-)

  25. 25.

    Dan B

    May 30, 2023 at 7:48 pm

    @WaterGirl: Eyes are closed and they are slits unlike the other spots on her face.

  26. 26.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:49 pm

    @WaterGirl:

    My favorite Sesame Street cartoon ever:

    https://youtu.be/qVDUYJo3CjU

  27. 27.

    KrackenJack

    May 30, 2023 at 7:50 pm

    @JaySinWA: Same here. I like to think I am tough and gamey, but in reality I’m desk-bound wagyu.

  28. 28.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:50 pm

    @Dan B: Okay, now I can see it!  Thank you.  I should see the straight-line slit, and then if I put my finger over the paw that’s next to Trixie’s face, I could totally see her face.

    I feel much better now!

    Thanks to all who helped clue me in.  I just couldn’t see her face, and now I can’t not see it. :-)

  29. 29.

    Ohio Mom

    May 30, 2023 at 7:51 pm

    I’ve heard about Special Neat Treats but have yet to see them in person. I probably should look them up on social media to find out where they will be going next in the Cincinnati area.

    Setting up a business for your disabled kids is definitely a thing. An example I remember hearing about an autistic young man who loved shredding papers so his parents set him up in shredding business; they’d get business to contract with them and drive him over to the businesses on a regular rotation.

    I am not sure how any of this works long term because those supplying the “natural supports” (parents) aren’t going to be able to fill that role indefinitely. Then what?

    @brendancalling: If you explained what is troubling you in another thread, I missed it, just hoping things start looking up.

  30. 30.

    JPL

    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 pm

    @WaterGirl: So sweet.

  31. 31.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:52 pm

    @WaterGirl: woohoo! It’s like those crazy 3-D pictures you kinda had to look at from the side.

  32. 32.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:53 pm

    @Manyakitty: I had never seen that!

  33. 33.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:53 pm

    @JPL: the Sesame Street cartoon I posted for Water girl is also for you 😀

  34. 34.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 7:54 pm

    @WaterGirl: makes me teary every time

  35. 35.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:55 pm

    @Manyakitty: Yeah, for me it was definitely one of those “do you see the vase or do you see the witch’s silhouette” things!

  36. 36.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 7:56 pm

    @Manyakitty: It was very sweet.  I can see why you posted it.

  37. 37.

    JPL

    May 30, 2023 at 8:01 pm

    @Manyakitty: That is the best ever.

  38. 38.

    eclare

    May 30, 2023 at 8:04 pm

    @MomSense:

    That must be scary to give up driving.  Best of luck to you and your mom.

    Does your city have reliable Uber/Lyft service?

  39. 39.

    eclare

    May 30, 2023 at 8:06 pm

    @JPL:

    Awww…that is sweet!  Toddlers baking biscuits?  I’m impressed.

  40. 40.

    eclare

    May 30, 2023 at 8:07 pm

    @WaterGirl:

    I also had trouble figuring out the dog parts.

  41. 41.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 8:09 pm

    @JPL: 😍 glad you liked it

  42. 42.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 8:09 pm

    @WaterGirl: 🥰

  43. 43.

    eclare

    May 30, 2023 at 8:10 pm

    Nibi is adorable!  Amazing how building dams is an innate drive.  And she separates her toys from her sticks.

    I hope you feel better and have some calmer days, TaMara.

  44. 44.

    JPL

    May 30, 2023 at 8:11 pm

    @eclare: yup Not the grandma though.  We do bake brownies from a mix though.

  45. 45.

    The Moar You Know

    May 30, 2023 at 8:12 pm

    I am not sure how any of this works long term because those supplying the “natural supports” (parents) aren’t going to be able to fill that role indefinitely. Then what?

    @Ohio Mom:  it can’t work out long term, but you do what you can while you can.

  46. 46.

    eclare

    May 30, 2023 at 8:13 pm

    @Manyakitty:

    That is so cute!

  47. 47.

    Wapiti

    May 30, 2023 at 8:15 pm

    @Ohio Mom: I am not sure how any of this works long term because those supplying the “natural supports” (parents) aren’t going to be able to fill that role indefinitely.

    I had a boss who was a real fitness freak – which was fine, this was when I was in the Army. One day he had a talk with entire office (maybe 12-15 of us), where he explained his philosophy:

    He had a kid with Down’s Syndrome. They don’t have good life expectancy. The boss figured he needed to take care of himself, because he needed to outlive his kid.

  48. 48.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 8:16 pm

    @eclare: 🥰

  49. 49.

    JPL

    May 30, 2023 at 8:19 pm

    @eclare: It really was perfect.

  50. 50.

    Josie

    May 30, 2023 at 8:24 pm

    I was so proud of my granddaughter today. She is five years old and autistic. I picked her up from her first day at a camp for disabled children. I was worried that going to a new place with all new people would be difficult for her and might cause behavior problems. The woman who brought her out to me said that she was the sweetest child she had ever seen and that she was unusually kind and supportive of the other children in her group. This is the personality we have always seen in Genny and are thrilled that she holds onto it even under stress.

  51. 51.

    TaMara

    May 30, 2023 at 8:26 pm

    @WaterGirl: I’m loving that my speckled puppy is some kind of visual illusion.

  52. 52.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 8:32 pm

    @eclare: We are in good company with Dorothy Winsor.

  53. 53.

    zhena gogolia

    May 30, 2023 at 8:33 pm

    @Josie: Lovely.

  54. 54.

    MomSense

    May 30, 2023 at 8:33 pm

    Thanks, everyone.  We moved to this town because of the services – the local bus, the bus to Portland, and the train that goes from here to Boston.
    The anger that goes with cognitive changes I could do without.  Dear lord my internal monologue is not so nice right now.  I don’t know how you make peace with all the things that happen when a loved one is in the early stages of dementia. I’m going to be a basket case when she passes.

  55. 55.

    Dorothy A. Winsor

    May 30, 2023 at 8:34 pm

    @JPL: What a sweetie.

  56. 56.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 8:34 pm

    @Josie: wonderful!

  57. 57.

    eclare

    May 30, 2023 at 8:34 pm

    @Josie:

    Wonderful!

  58. 58.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 8:34 pm

    @TaMara: Oh, good, I was hoping you wouldn’t be offended!

  59. 59.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 8:35 pm

    @Josie: That’s huge!

  60. 60.

    Ohio Mom

    May 30, 2023 at 8:35 pm

    @Wapiti: I think it was easier to outlive your DS kid a while ago. Medical science has lengthened their lifespans — so much so that we now know DS predisposes you to develop Alzheimer’s in late middle-age (in your 50s and sometimes even your 40s).

  61. 61.

    MomSense

    May 30, 2023 at 8:36 pm

    @Josie:

    I am so happy that her carers “see her” and recognize her sweet personality.
    💕💕💕💕

  62. 62.

    WaterGirl

    May 30, 2023 at 8:38 pm

    @MomSense: It’s such a difficult thing, please don’t be hard on yourself.  I am sure that you are handing it with grace.  It’s just not possible for a human to do that for every minute of every day.

    I repeat, please don’t be hard on yourself.  I’m sure you are doing great.

  63. 63.

    JPL

    May 30, 2023 at 8:41 pm

    @Josie: that is great.   The advances they made not only in treatment but our awareness is huge.

  64. 64.

    Josie

    May 30, 2023 at 8:42 pm

    @MomSense: ​
      I must tell you a story. Some years ago, I was on my way back home from visiting my Mom, who was in a care home for Alzheimer’s patients She had gradually deteriorated over a ten year period until we could not longer keep her at home.
    I called my middle son in tears because I was feeling guilty about not staying longer to visit with her because it was so frustrating. I told him I was not a good person. His answer was that I was there, so I was a good person, that my brothers, who were not there and never came to visit, were the not good persons.
    Never feel bad about your negative feelings. You are doing what needs to be done, and I’ll bet you are doing it well. Feel proud of that.

  65. 65.

    MomSense

    May 30, 2023 at 8:42 pm

    @WaterGirl:

    I don’t think I am – ugh I don’t know.  I really appreciate your support, though.

  66. 66.

    zhena gogolia

    May 30, 2023 at 8:43 pm

    @MomSense: There is no good way to do it. Be sure to take care of yourself.

  67. 67.

    MomSense

    May 30, 2023 at 8:44 pm

    @Josie:

    Thank you. 🙏

  68. 68.

    Josie

    May 30, 2023 at 8:45 pm

    Thanks to everyone for your kind words. The progress Genny has made in the last two years is amazing and is a direct result of wonderful therapists, much new knowledge, and parents who are determined to advocate for her. I wish all children were so blessed.

  69. 69.

    Dan B

    May 30, 2023 at 8:48 pm

    My little grey kitten is asleep on the back of my chair at times resting on my shoulder.  Mike says he’s like my parrot.  It’s wonderful because yesterday he wouldn’t eat and didn’t want pets.  He slept in places he never has before.  It was concerning and so nice he’s back to normal, even if “normal” is a touch weird.

  70. 70.

    MomSense

    May 30, 2023 at 8:49 pm

    @JPL:

    That’s so sweet! A kind, thoughtful human is a gift to all!

  71. 71.

    Wapiti

    May 30, 2023 at 8:55 pm

    @MomSense: To some degree, I think people with dementia are frustrated – their world has drastically changed and they have to figure it out again, like we all did when we were infants and toddlers.

    My dad was ranting at the PT person one day (he’s terrified of falling again) and then he sort of sat back and said “I don’t want to be angry about this”.

    Maybe he’s grieving for what he’s lost; I’m not sure he has that much cognition.

  72. 72.

    Jackie

    May 30, 2023 at 9:04 pm

    This is shockingly good news!

    “Republican Gov. Joe Lombardo signed a measure into law Tuesday that would protect out-of-state abortion seekers and those providing reproductive care from prosecution in Nevada, regardless of other states’ policies.”

    ““Governor Lombardo made a campaign commitment to sign a law ensuring that Nevada would not participate in prosecuting those seeking legal medical care in the state,” Lombardo spokesperson Elizabeth Ray told The Nevada Independent Tuesday.”

    A Republican who actually keeps and fulfills a campaign promise!

    https://thenevadaindependent.com/article/lombardo-nevadas-gop-governor-signs-measure-protecting-out-of-state-abortion-seekers

  73. 73.

    MomSense

    May 30, 2023 at 9:06 pm

    @Wapiti:

    Yes, I think grief is a big part of it especially when they are still aware enough to know what is happening.

  74. 74.

    eclare

    May 30, 2023 at 9:14 pm

    @MomSense:

    Yes.  In her last six months, my mom did not lose much cognitively, but the physical decline was steep.  She became very angry, and I had to keep telling myself that she must be so scared.

    As WaterGirl said, take care of yourself and don’t be hard on yourself.  It’s difficult and draining.

  75. 75.

    Amir Khalid

    May 30, 2023 at 9:29 pm

    You all know what would be an act of kindness? It would be a real act of kindness if movies and their trailers weren’t so damn LOUD, CRASHY AND EXPLODEY. These days, it seems like even romantic comedies and kid-friendly animated movies are LOUD, CRASHY AND EXPLODEY. I hate sitting in Hall 4 at the multiplex and hearing the crashes and explosions from the movie playing in Hall 6.

  76. 76.

    mvr

    May 30, 2023 at 9:34 pm

    TaMara, The roof is a no-brainer – it’s very light grey now and we’ll be going as light as possible because light roofs make life better (see info here).

     

    You probably know this already but since the link did not explicitly say this, I’ll mention that even with about the same color of asphalt roof there are special more reflective shingles that cost a bit more but do in fact work pretty well. Our attic is cooler after we replaced the old ones with new ones of this sort in the same basic shade.

    FWIW, in case it helps.

  77. 77.

    Ruckus

    May 30, 2023 at 9:39 pm

    @MomSense:

    It is difficult. My dad had Alzheimers and he lived a long time with it. I first noticed signs over 15 yrs before he passed. He made another 5 or so years on his own but then he could no longer. When he was still driving I found out that he would go out and then drive around his neighborhood looking for his apt building. Then sister moved him in with her and she hired a woman to help but they only lasted 6 weeks. Most of us need distance away from parents with dementia. It is like taking care of a fully grown infant who wants to be on their own. It most often doesn’t end reasonably. Or have a reasonable beginning or middle either. We found a couple of women that owned 5 homes and they would take care of 3 or 4 adults with dementia in each one. They, and their employees could do what most relatives can not – watch their parents devolve and die in front of them. It’s too emotional and too difficult and the parents just do not want to listen to the kids. This may not be everyone but we found out that it is most everyone.

  78. 78.

    mvr

    May 30, 2023 at 9:47 pm

    @MomSense: FWIW, when my dad died 25 years ago my mom was in the middle stages of dementia.  I organized her care for the next five years through stages of decline until her death, at first from afar and then here in town where I was on call to help out if needed. We had a good relationship and that helped, though it made it harder for me sometimes to do what was needed since we had always been very frank an honest with one another and sometimes when a person is having too many cognitive issues you have to explain by simplifying (at the very least).

    It really is difficult and I’m very sure you are doing as well as  or better than anyone could expect.

    Anyway, FWIW, I did learn a bit in the process of doing that and would be happy to pass some of that on. I’m easy to find, as a philosophy prof in Lincoln Nebraska with a website.

    Cars are an issue, but it sounds like your mom may be giving up driving without too much fuss. That is probably good. My mom wanted to keep the car but at a certain point she stopped driving it. It was harder for her to admit she got lost than to keep it but not use it. Eventually I was able to sell it.

    One other issue I’ll mention – that you may already know about: It is good to get legal stuff done (powers of attorney for health care, possibly money, etc.) while she is still relatively competent to make decisions, since at some point certain things are harder to do.

  79. 79.

    Chris T.

    May 30, 2023 at 9:53 pm

    @Amir Khalid: A friend of mine calls these the “Loud Noises” movies. He kind of wonders why they bother with any other title, they could just number them, “Loud Noises LXXVI” or whatever.

  80. 80.

    mrmoshpotato

    May 30, 2023 at 10:01 pm

    So! Good!

    And I hope Trixy’s ear keeps Jasper’s head warm!  LOL!

    And Nora, oh Nora…  You dirty duck! Hahaha!  ❤️

  81. 81.

    mrmoshpotato

    May 30, 2023 at 10:03 pm

    @Adam L Silverman:

    There’s always room for cello. 

    So true.

  82. 82.

    NutmegAgain

    May 30, 2023 at 10:08 pm

    Best videos, just the best. Thank you TaMara, and I hope you stay feeling better.

    My small contributions to the world of feel-good stuff are (1) that the doggo I fostered over the winter has wound up with the kindest most loving people I could imagine … and they live by the beach! (This for a Newfoundland is really hitting the jackpot, and the big gray boy really deserves it. 6+ years in a cage–really– never been out on the grass, nothing, and now he has his own beach and loving people who are gaga about him.) Yay! And (2) I am currently fostering a young fellow, also Newf, this time a Landseer, who is, to put it kindly, bonkers. He’s on the small side, and very wiry and athletic–not the first things that come to mind regarding a Newfy. His person is going through some rough stuff, and lost his housing where he could live with his dog. Thankfully the rescue is able to do an intermediate holding kind of thing. I’m his caretaker, and, although he’s only about 85-90 pounds, he is spring loaded. I am getting a workout! But he’s such a sweetie.

    If your life can include it, I highly recommend becoming a foster of whatever kind of creature you are prepared for. So rewarding.

  83. 83.

    mrmoshpotato

    May 30, 2023 at 10:10 pm

    @JaySinWA:

    We Are All Flavored Differently 

    Am I the only one that gets a “How to Serve Man” vibe from this title?

    Well, if you think you were marinated more deliciously than the rest of us…

  84. 84.

    mrmoshpotato

    May 30, 2023 at 11:04 pm

    @Manyakitty: Haha!  Excellent!

  85. 85.

    Manyakitty

    May 30, 2023 at 11:09 pm

    @mrmoshpotato: charming AF, right 😍

  86. 86.

    TaMara

    May 31, 2023 at 1:17 am

    @NutmegAgain: This is so cool! Great news.

  87. 87.

    NeenerNeener

    May 31, 2023 at 5:51 am

    TaMara: I just getting around to reading this about 12 hours late. Do you still drive a Kia Niro? I’ve had to have two of the sensors replaced on mine in the last six months. The car still acted just fine except for the Check Engine light that kept coming on.

  88. 88.

    Uncle Cosmo

    May 31, 2023 at 6:58 am

    @Adam L Silverman: There’s always room for cello.

    What? Someone had to say it.

    Um, someone said it a lonnnnng time ago. Somewhere in my stash of memorabilia I have a copy of a one-panel newspaper comic from last millennium: Backstage at the symphony, musical instruments piled up in the darkened wing. A spotlight shines over the viewer’s right shoulder, silhouetting a beaver’s tail furiously flapping against the curtains. Caption:

    After devouring the priceless Stradivarius, Barney the Beaver discovers that there’s always room for cello.

    :^D

    Nothing new under the sun, kids…

  89. 89.

    TaMara

    May 31, 2023 at 9:27 am

    @NeenerNeener: Yes and I’m having the same problem!! What was your solution – I have to take it back in next week so they can try and figure it out.  (I may email you the same Q)

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