They released a version of the "secret vote" ad for men.
— Matt Novak (@paleofuture.bsky.social) November 3, 2024 at 11:29 AM
Friendly reminder that from now until Wednesday, we are living in the metaphorical equivalent of an airport lounge. Calories don't count. Money doesn't matter. No one will judge you for having a beer at 10am.
— Katie Howland (@katieshowland) November 4, 2024
Riot fencing is being installed in DC ahead of the election. This isn’t normal and the press needs to be clear why. Trump incited a violent insurrection and continues to present an ongoing threat to our democracy. The security measures are entirely due to the danger he presents. https://t.co/8kebeyx5uf
— Matt McDermott (@mattmfm) November 3, 2024
Mighty thin crowd https://t.co/QQBcbHYe48
— Darius Rocker (@drocker875) November 4, 2024
Lots of people were leaving the Trump rally early today. pic.twitter.com/YstB4DNPPc
— The Good Liars (@TheGoodLiars) November 4, 2024
— chekovian jubilee (@CollieYimby) November 4, 2024
imagine you think you’re going to a beatles concert and it’s just ringo singing octopus’s garden for two hours
— not an art thief (@famousartthief.bsky.social) November 3, 2024 at 4:49 PM
Wow. Trump is basically a washed up lounge act at this point. Just… pathetic. pic.twitter.com/t9ZoxGrTes
— BadgerStew (@BadgerStew) November 2, 2024
Maybe people really are just sick of him https://t.co/3dlWKD5fh8
— chekovian jubilee (@CollieYimby) November 4, 2024
I don’t think unleashing RFK’s crankery or calling Puerto Ricans garbage helped, but as I keep saying the real October surprise is that Republicans started talking about their policy agenda — ACA/CHIPS repeal, “temporary hardship” for you + huge tax breaks for Elon Musk. https://t.co/hqKV7uwpdA
— Matthew Yglesias (@mattyglesias) November 3, 2024
Voters of Iowa, you have an opportunity to do the funniest thing in the history of mankind pic.twitter.com/QnILrxJbhS
— Liam Nissan™ (@theliamnissan) November 3, 2024
Counter-argument:
"Donald Trump spends four years staging an elaborate criminal scheme involving hundreds or even thousands of actors to subvert the 2024 election only for it to not matter at all because he clearly loses Iowa at 10 PM ET and concedes before bed" is THE funniest possible outcome
— knife-wielding hemophiliac (@NickTagliaferro) November 2, 2024
Betty Cracker
Please. Please. Pleeeeeeaaaaase! Let our long national — nay, global! — nightmare end today.
Ishiyama
I have been addicted to campaign porn on C-Span since 1992. The attraction, for me, is the rush I get in the last days before the end of a victorious campaign, when I have been following the candidate’s rallies from the earliest iterations. I don’t want to miss out on the shared historic experience.
The feeling, even in success, is never the same at the end. In 1992, Bill Clinton wore himself hoarse at the end. In 2008, Obama’s campaign’s energy was infused with hope. Tonight I am wallowing in bliss from the pleasure of watching Tim & Kamala’s superlative performances today. They know they are going to win, and they are clearly looking forward. Early in the day, Tim Walz was disheveled and candid, then they put him in a presidential suit and he delivered a fantastic performance in Milwaukee.
In Pennsylvania, Kamala went from Scranton to Allentown with an entirely upbeat manner, and then finished in Philly looking every inch The President.
All in all, it’s been an excellent evening, reviewing the day.
Gloria DryGarden
Has this already been discussed? There are serious horrid challenges going in. This article about misinformation in Atlanta feels so much like all the arguments I’ve had with friends who believe the fake videos and drink the Kool aid…
I also feel disheartened by the numerous challenges against mail-in ballots in PA.
But I finally got my ballot done and in the box, late tonight. Denver has 24 ballot issues to read up on and vote about. It’s quite a challenge. Phew.
Baud
@Betty Cracker:
I’m currently leaning towards staying up long enough to see if FL does the right thing. If it does, then I’ll stay up for Harris’s victory speech.
lowtechcyclist
Toxic de-masculinity? :D
Baud
@Ishiyama:
Yeah, the polls say it’s close but the candidates on both sides are acting like it’s not.
Gloria DryGarden
That video of the dads voting, his daughter calling out, it gives me tears. The comments under the tiktok say it’s George Clooney, so listened again. It sure sounds like him. How cool is that?
Bruce K in ATH-GR
I’m going to be a too-tightly-wound bundle of anxieties all day, knowing that I’ll be dropping from exhaustion before any results come in. I’m like Red in the middle of The Shawshank Redemption, not daring to hope.
Betty Cracker
@Ishiyama: Earlier, I saw a clip of Obama in 2008 at his last rally before the election. He was tired but still energetic—he knew he was going to win.
His was the first campaign I followed obsessively from Iowa to Election Day. Not coincidentally, Obama was also my first primary preference who actually won the nomination.
It was a magical feeling when he won the election. All that to say, I know what you mean about the shared historical experience.
eclare
@Betty Cracker:
The gathering that election night in Chicago definitely was magical.
Baud
@Gloria DryGarden:
Cartoon version.
Ivan X
Recorded this thing yesterday while working off nervous energy; posted downstairs but it was an Instagram link, so now it’s on YouTube to be more, well, inclusive.
IVAN X – We Got This
piratedan
has it been discussed yet that Guilliani was supposed to “find out” today and turn over his possessions to the GA election workers and he stiffed them by moving all of his shit out of the apartment before they could seize it?
Jeffg166
A friend sent me this:
“It feels like the whole nation is waiting for the biopsy results.”
Betty Cracker
@Baud: If Florida flips, I’ll be catatonic with glee. Don’t think that’s gonna happen. But NC and/or GA are gettable, and they count votes pretty efficiently, I think. If Harris wins NC and/or GA, Trump is toast, so it’ll be worth a late night’s schadenfreude feast!
@Jeffg166: Accurate!
Baud
@Ivan X:
Groovy.
eclare
@Ivan X:
Very cool!
My dog will get a lot of hugs today.
Baud
@Betty Cracker:
If we get NC or GA, I’ll have a decision to make about staying up. If we get both, I’ll wait for the speech.
Ivan X
@Baud: @eclare: Thanks!
Betty Cracker
@Ivan X: Good advice!
Fair Economist
@Betty Cracker: Oh yes, Obama winning was one of those remember-for-your-lifetime moments for me. I was treating myself at Starbucks (it was already obvious he was going to win) when the networks called it at 8PM Pacific Time, when the CA polls closed. What a nice feeling.
Ivan X
I can’t believe you good people have the verve for watching. I plan on Xanax and cocktails and unconscious by 8.
ETA: Kerry in 2004 and HRC in 2016 broke me from watching returns again. It’s just too much, especially with that asshole running. Obama in 2008 was glorious, though. Somehow, I knew. It had to be.
Baud
@Ivan X:
Both years were awful. I can’t even remember what I did in 2020. But that didn’t get called for days.
Baud
I hope the young people get their version of Obama’s victory tonight. It’s really in their hands.
gkoutnik
Best wishes for a good day.
Don’t miss Baud’s cartoon at #11
Ivan X
@Baud: No one remembers what they did for pretty much all of 2020.
Splitting Image
@Betty Cracker:
Relax, Betty. One of the campaigns is talking about what they will do after they are elected. The other is talking about a squirrel.
eclare
@Baud:
Seems like 2020 was called the Saturday after the election. I remember finally feeling free to stop monitoring my tv/phone and go buy groceries.
lowtechcyclist
@Baud:
Damn, people still say ‘groovy’?
Sorry, but you’re going to have to be returned for regrooving. ;-)
Gretchen
@Jeffg166: wow. That’s accurate. I was invited to watch returns with friends, but I couldn’t. I have a visceral memory of watching 2016 returns with friends, ready to celebrate, and slowly realizing that there would be nothing to celebrate. I cried every day for a month. I just can’t be confident.
Gretchen
@Betty Cracker: my dream is Cruz and Hawley both losing.
Sourmash
When I was a kid, I had a paper route for an afternoon paper. After the post-Watergate election of 1974, the head line read “GOP in shambles!” I hope to read that again tomorrow.
Gretchen
@Ivan X: 2016 wasn’t any better sleeping through the night and having my husband tell me the results in the morning. I couldn’t believe it.
Situation Normal
Sleepless on the West Coast — some guy from Stoned Mountain turned me on to this site just a few weeks ago and it’s been helpful to my morale. You folks and the, um…silent majority (remember that?) embody the hope and promise of this land. Thanks —
Ishiyama
I broke open my bottle of Pau Maui Vodka for a nightcap. Hope for early good news in the morning.
Nukular Biskits
I’m not a praying man.
But, as mentioned in a previous thread, I’m really hoping, not only for a Harris-Walz victory, but an electoral ass-whuppin’ such that Trump supporter can’t even have a concept of a claim of “cheating”.
Ditto for House & Senate as well.
Time to kick these regressive asshats to the curb. Metaphorically speaking, of course.
mrmoshpotato
@Betty Cracker: Netflix day for me. Not gonna watch pundits jack off all day.
And get a goddamned hobby, Steve Kornaci!
WaterGirl
@Situation Normal: Glad you are here.
eclare
@mrmoshpotato:
What is in the queue for Netflix?
lowtechcyclist
@Ivan X:
The night of the 2000 election, I told my wife I was going to stay up until we knew who won. (Obviously that didn’t happen!) Haven’t stayed up late to watch the returns since then.
WRT 2008, I was one of the millions who watched Obama’s keynote speech in 2004 and said, “he’s gonna be President someday.” Then when he declared his 2008 candidacy in early 2007, I remember thinking, “but I didn’t think it would be now.” But I knew right then that he was going to win. I had some brief moments of doubt along the way, but they were brief.
The thing I most remember about the election itself was that, at the Senate level, it went on until the next July, IIRC, which was one of the reasons our filibuster-proof majority only existed for a few months.
eclare
@Situation Normal:
Welcome!
Marmot
@mrmoshpotato: Good plan.
Full agree.
VeniceRiley
@eclare: Please say the entire S2 of The Diplomat. All the political shenanigans and none of the real world consequences!
TS
@Gloria DryGarden:
I read the whole article and don’t see anything other than fools trying to drum up support. The last sentence says it all
They weren’t successful in 2020 and they will fail again. Time some of the agitators were sued as per Giuliani
eclare
@VeniceRiley:
I haven’t watched S1! Right now I have Hulu, I’ll switch back to Netflix in December, and that is def on the list.
Maxim
@Gretchen: That would be a beautiful thing.
Baud
@Gretchen:
Cruz is possible because he’s odious even to Texans.
A Hawley loss would mean a 2008 style blue wave.
David 🐝KHive🐝 Koch
@Situation Normal: You’re welcome
prostratedragon
Symphony no. 3, mvt IV, Aaron Copeland
David 🐝KHive🐝 Koch
Dump told Melania, “Just think tomorrow you’ll be sleeping with the president of the United States!” And Melania replied, “Do I go to Joe’s place or does Joe come here?”
bjacques
We didn’t achieve a TBogg Unit downstairs, but we did make it to 333, the Number of Choronzon.
p.a.
2000 and the McConnell court broke me. If there’s no decision (well, good news from Pen, NC, Iowa) by my bedtime (10pm-ish EST) I turn in and try to sleep.
mappy!
Up at 3:30 for a 4:00am start, thanks to the insistence of a hungry, kneading whiner. Help start the day of poll work. It’s 5:00am prep for the polls opening at 6, closing at 8:00pm; post the count and report to SOS, home by midnight. There’s an election every year. A budget referendum every year. Muni’s in odd years, state & fed even. I’ve only done the full day a few times, at a booth beyond the 75′ line. Think good thoughts for your poll workers.
Maxim
@mappy!: Thank you for your service. May you and all your colleagues across the country experience an extraordinarily problem-free day.
Chris Johnson
I’m gonna act like it’s a normal day. I mean, it’s not, but it’s already not because I’m FINALLY able to get my house painted, so guys are swarming it scraping every surface while I try and code, inside. Which is… challenging :) it’s like being under siege, so… normal day :D
I’m going to call that Dixville Notch sets the tone. In Dixville Notch, half the Haley supporters broke for Kamala Harris. That’s plausible if there are any women living in Dixville Notch.
I’m also calling the aftermath and the media response based on what people like Tucker Carlson are doing, on the assumption that Tucker personifies the Russian influence (even when he is not interviewing Putin or raving about Russian supermarkets). Tucker is currently also raving about demons. He does not, in fact, believe in them. It’s his current messaging, and that suggests that having lost electoral constituencies due to being too shit and ridiculous and weird, the MAGA controllers are 100% going to double down on the crazy in hopes of making as many heavily armed crazy people be a problem for us.
I figure if the NYT starts also seriously endorsing demon theories, that’ll be more than confirmed, but I’d bet money that they at least platform that stuff, perhaps on a daily basis. Expect Q and demon loonery to flood the zone, because it’s no longer about winning any election, it’s about provoking attacks on the US from within. And expect media such as the NYT to try to make a case that literally half the country is like that, when in fact they’re really, really not.
It’s a good time for feds to infiltrate the looniest redneck clusters, which means there’ll be two sorts of people urging the loons to looniness: Russian agents like Tucker Carlson, and feds, who’re also trying to get information on the Russian guys and roll up their networks. So if you’re a MAGA loony, which sort are telling you to do what? Can you be sure you’re not being coaxed to do bad things by a fed who will bust you? :D
eclare
@mappy!:
Wow! Polls open from 6 am to 8 pm? That’s a long day! Here in Memphis it’s 7 am to 7 pm. I will be thinking good thoughts for you and all of the other election workers today.
lowtechcyclist
@mappy!:
Virginia has elections every year: the Federal stuff (President and Congress) on the even years, and the state stuff (Governor and state legislature) on the odd years.
Ksmiami
@Ivan X: I’m with you on this 😫. Fully expect to be let down by Americans, but wouldn’t it be nice…
greenergood
@Gretchen: Yeah, 2016 was a bumper year for horror – first Brexit in June (I live in Scotland) and then the Triumph of the Yam in November…please, not again this year!
Rachel Bakes
Overnighted at my mom’s and couldn’t sleep. Up with kid at 5 with a headache. Bodes ill for my day of keeping him (and me) outside and active all day
Ramalama
While we early birds wait and avoid and engage and nailbite today, how about an American poem by Eileen Myles. Seems even more à propos than other years.
eclare
From The Guardian, when will we know who the next president is? The article goes into detail about the vote counting procedure in different states.
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/nov/05/harris-trump-election-results-when
MagdaInBlack
Delete: i give up posting links .
Bostondreams
@Baud: been reading a couple threads that the abortion measure is in trouble because Florida Dems aren’t showing up to vote. Argh. Hope that changes today.
eclare
@greenergood:
I took Brexit as an omen that TCFG very well could win. Even before Comey, I was not confident at all.
Baud
@Bostondreams:
It needs 60% to pass, so it’s a heavy lift.
Florida would be a wonderful gift in the EC, but I’m not counting on it.
Soprano2
@Baud: You’re right. TCFG has the bearing and attitude of a man who knows he’s going to lose. Harris had the bearing and attitude of a winner. You can’t look at those half empty venues and think that’s good. He can lie about it, but there’s video!
Baud
Via reddit, nice photo of Harris and AOC.
Baud
Via reddit
eclare
@Baud:
That is a great photo.
Princess
@Baud: wonderful. Just shared it on fb. Makes me want a jibarito.
hueyplong
Gotta say, loving the new vibe in which “doomerism” consists of worrying that incumbent Senate GOPers in Texas and Misery might not/probably won’t lose.
I know, it’s still a close election in terms of nationwide numbers, each of the three prizes (Oval, House, Senate) is in doubt, and we all will resume tension mode once the results start to come in. But man, it’s a lot better to be us than the spiteful coal rollers this particular AM.
Tonight (at least from 7 to 9 and then for an hour in the car) I’ll be on the floor shooting video of a women’s basketball game at my alma mater (for a propaganda piece supporting the program). Will be a complete distraction without so much as a chance at scrolling on the cell phone, and kind of appropriate for the eight-years-delayed-by-a-monster election of the first female POTUS.
Come on, voters, go drive a stake through the pig’s “heart” and let’s roll credits on this horror movie.
Betty Cracker
@Baud: My guess is #4 gets close but comes up short (57% maybe). But if the Selzer poll in Iowa has it right about older women breaking hard for Harris, and it’s part of a national trend, maybe Florida will surprise us? I never, ever count on Florida though. It’s broken my heart too damn many times.
Michael Bersin
@Gretchen:
Josh Hawley’s (r – the third senator from Virginia) “closing” campaign commercial in Missouri yesterday was nauseating.
He’s so slimy no one would buy running shoes from him.
Baud
@Michael Bersin:
They’re doing what they think the market demands.
Ohio Mom
@Situation Normal: Welcome!
NotMax
@Betty Cracker
Land of Disenchantment.
//
Baud
Via reddit, Dan Rather.
eclare
@Baud:
Good statement.
3Sice
The new campaign slogan over the last weekend….lulz. Changing things that will have no effect because they can’t replace the candidate.
NotMax
Mentioned before, Prime will have bespoke live election coverage. They’ve decided to put fresh batteries into (ugh) Brian Williams for it.
Bring this up solely for the sake of FYI.
p.a
Think couching the End-the-EC movement in “make your vote really count” to the other 43 states, and “get the politicians out for our sanity” to the usual suspects could help?
Shalimar
I watched the NY Times needle in 2016. It started out at over 95% chance that Clinton would win. When it got down to 72%, I knew Trump was going to win Florida and the election, so I went to bed very depressed.
Ramalama
Are people here going to do some day drinking?
Informal survey.
Liminal Owl
@eclare: My memory accords with yours.
Here’s something I wrote on the Friday (the day before it was called):
The Year of “I Can’t Breathe”
On January 2, an old love died,
breathless in the ICU,
taken in two weeks by an unknown pathogen.
By the end of the month, there were alarms
alerting us to the novel virus,
and now myriads are gone, gasping.
In May, George Floyd died,
begging for breath under a murderous cop’s knee,
And soon thousands of protestors
asserting that Black Lives Matter
fled, choking on floods of pepper spray
that issued from the thin blue line.
All summer, wildfires filled the air and news
in the state where I used to live.
Old friends stayed indoors
to avoid being smothered
by toxic particles and smoke.
The earth herself,
lungs cut down for short-term gain,
bore witness: she could not supply the air.
As the year rolled towards its close,
we voted, masked and distanced,
and wait, holding our breath,
to learn whether breathing might become safe again.
Kyle Rayner
Today’s to do list includes buying a lemon. I’ve been improvising my martinis with orange peel and it’s just not the same. Maybe once I have the correct citrus, I’ll even trade up to making bourbon sours for the big night.
TBone
JFC. Per today’s Heather Cox Richardson:
Nazis all the way down. We know what to do with Nazis!
https://heathercoxrichardson.substack.com/p/november-4-2024
Pennsylvania does NOT Nazi!
Enhanced Voting Techniques
@Soprano2: The other thing is Trump’s people are already blaming each other for what went wrong.
lowtechcyclist
@Baud:
Which reminds me, I wonder how Jimmy Carter is doing?
NotMax
Did Dolt 45 actually say as closing rancid nuggets he’d place RFK jr “in charge of women” and Herschel Walker in charge of missile defense?
Yes, yes, he did.
Bruce K in ATH-GR
@TBone:
Don’t punch Nazis. You’ll hurt your hand. Use a baseball bat instead.
Enhanced Voting Techniques
@TBone: He’s not just a Nazi, he is an American Nazi, and they are not noted for competence, and there he was a regional campaign director for Trump in a swing state.
eclare
@Liminal Owl:
That is beautiful, thank you for sharing your poem.
Here is to being able to breathe ASAP this week, knowing that TCFG is finally done.
NotMax
@TBone
PA will do the
rightcorrect thing.Gloria DryGarden
@piratedan: fuck. Asshole. Rudy g, gonna get his balls on a platter..
Ken
@NotMax: Yeah, but it’s not like anyone who stayed long enough to hear him say it cared one way or the other.
Love those rally pictures at the top, especially the people behind him. Real “god I’m bored but I don’t get paid if I leave early” vibes.
comrade scotts agenda of rage
@Chris Johnson:
I noted at least one split ticket in Dixville Notch. Ayotte is a persistent GOP postule that the voters in NH just can’t seem to stamp out.
Mowgli
@Ramalama: thank you for posting this, it’s lovely.
May we all be part of making this broken world a little better as we go.
I’m thinking of my trans son today, lost to suicide 7 months ago, and hoping we will bend the arc of history a little more toward justice and caring today.
comrade scotts agenda of rage
@Ramalama:
Yup.
Gloria DryGarden
@Baud: love it. Another quick spike of tears. Thank you!
means more than any father daughter dance thing, it’s like he sees her and for real wants the best for her. So touched.
NotMax
@Bruce K in ATH-GR
Somebody will clean up marketing Whack-a-
MoleNazi.//
Anne Laurie
I only see Carlson in clips on social media, but frankly he’s been increasingly sounding like a guy descending into a mental breakdown. And I come from the kind of dysfunctional family where I learned to spot those signals from a *very* early age.
It would not surprise me if, at this present moment, Tucker believes that demons are real & threatening him personally. What *does* surprise me is that nobody in his personal life seems to be willing to intervene when the man is very clearly agitated & unhappy. Gotta assume his remaining ‘loved ones’ are all GOP and/or Russian operatives at this point… which, not a great arbiter for the Reicht Wing media, is it?
Shalimar
@TBone: And for those who have forgotten because Spencer has mostly disappeared from the news for the last 5 years or so, Richard Spencer and Stephen Miller were close friends at Duke. Which could explain how Meyer got that job at only 24 years old.
Betty Cracker
@Ramalama: Not me, but wake and bake is on the table!
TBone
@Baud: AOC is a President in training. When she’s 50 or 60 y.o., watch out!
Betty Cracker
@Mowgli: Damn. I’m so sorry.
Gloria DryGarden
@TBone: wishing him his own chaos.
May these white nationalists no longer be allowed the use of any inventions created by people of color, or by women. That’ll knock out several cell phone and wifi functions, at the least. I don’t have a complete articulate list.
eclare
@Mowgli:
Oh I’m so sorry about your son.
Baud
@Mowgli:
I’m so sorry.
TBone
@Shalimar: 😡🤬😡🤬😡
I’m in a punchy mood this morning but
Weed and champagne (mimosas maybe, but prolly just straight champagne later).
I gorged on chocolate pudding and a jelly donut last night 😆 so it’ll be a while before my festivities start today.
🎶
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-sOSr7n_8YU
TBone
@Bruce K in ATH-GR:
💙❤️ That is my actual home security system.
TBone
@NotMax: 💪
NotMax
@Anee Laurie
Swanson legatee.
And I do mean Gloria.
“I am big. It’s reality that got small.”
//
Gloria DryGarden
@Mowgli: oh my heavens. I’m so sorry. How old was he?
I just stopped in my tracks, stopped everything to light an imaginary candle on my imagined altar, for him.
Chet Murthy
@Gloria DryGarden: the original sendmail program that managed email across most of the internet for many years was written by a gay man. Two of the key figures in the development of Unix were gay men.
TBone
@Anne Laurie: Jimmy Kimmel dressed that Fucker down real good, featuring some video clips 😆🔥
can’t find a link right nowHere it is
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4iEvtVOQkfQ
Gloria DryGarden
@Liminal Owl: ..”and wait, holding our breath,
to learn whether breathing might become safe again.”
stopping to breathe, just breathe
thank you
The Audacity of Krope
Love the secret vote ad. No one else peeped how when he checks his phone when the narrator talks about “those you care about the most” it shows is wife and daughter…and the time is 4:20.
Mowgli
@Gloria DryGarden: he was a month shy of his 24th birthday. An amazing person in so many ways, but had secretly struggled with suicidal ideation for years. Then in late 2023 his bipolar emerged and it was really bad… he thought he was cursed by his body and mind.
like so many trans people, the hatred directed at him was never far from his mind.
Gloria DryGarden
@Bostondreams: that’s crazy, to give up in advance! It’s a state with lots of older women, and we care pretty fervently about abortion and reproductive health care.
jeepers
SFAW
@Baud:
TCFFG’s concession speech? If so, you’ll have to wait a looooooooong time.
[Yes, I know what you meant.]
Situation Normal
@Betty Cracker: Re #104 — just so! But a bit more sleep would help it being 5:06 here & on the other hand my totally legal weed this year is ready. The situation: trim in a mood of joy & satisfaction or bitter irony? And so MVP has stepped to the fore…
Liminal Owl
@Mowgli: I’m so sorry for your loss. And so sorry for your son’s suffering, internal and externally.
Gloria DryGarden
@TBone: i hit the store late last night for comfort food and came away with deli mesquite turkey, Kroger potato salad, and shrimp cocktail. At least I’ll be nourished
Gloria DryGarden
@Chet Murthy: then they can’t use those either..
SFAW
@Mowgli:
I’m so sorry.
TerryC
Have you ever noticed how NPR announces 4:20 every single day?
Planetjanet
@Betty Cracker: I was at that rally in 2008. It was something I will never forget. I was doing lit drops that day. One person was so excited, she joined my route. Previously strangers, we went to the rally that night. The traffic was so snarled, we did not get home til 2:00 am. Even so, at 5:30 am, I was at my precinct passing out sample ballots almost all day. Went home for a short nap and then back out there til the polls closed. Then straight to the victory party in Tysons Corner. I remember standing just in front of the media stand as we waited for them to call Virginia and put Obama over 270. We started chanting “Yes, we did!” It was pure magic. Today, I was back opening the polls at 5:30. Now on the commuter train into work. But I will be at the victory party in Fredericksburg tonight. We will do this.
The Audacity of Krope
@TerryC: I don’t. But then, I don’t listen to NPR.
lowtechcyclist
@Mowgli:
Can’t imagine how that would feel. My thoughts are with you today.
The Audacity of Krope
@Mowgli: God, I’m so sorry to hear. This world is cruel.
lowtechcyclist
@Shalimar:
I hadn’t known that, but it could hardly be any less surprising. Talk about birds of a feather.
I still want everyone who had a hand in the child separations policy to be charged with a few thousand counts of kidnapping and child abuse, and be sentenced to several lifetimes in jail.
Another Scott
@Ivan X: 👍
Thanks.
Cheers,
Scott.
Ramalama
@Mowgli: OMG I’m so so sorry. Eileen Myles (the poet) came out as non-binary a while back, so it’s really fitting. Woefully fitting in your case.
Gloria DryGarden
@Mowgli: suicidal ideation is a pretty rough road.
I had a year of it near 30. I remember timing the suicidal thoughts like labor pains, and feeling some relief when I finally got slowed down to only every five minutes. And each time, the thought was like an earthquake, though I didn’t notice that until it only came hours or days apart, only then could I feel the shock of it. A little like being torn in two. I can only faintly imagine how hard it was for your son, receiving so much hatred, feeling so at odds with himself, and getting hit hard w the bipolar disorder.
I’m alive today, because I asked for help, reached out over and over, very humbling, and it took a lot of courage. Sometimes I negotiated with myself by the minute. Just this minute, I can wait and not do it. I can agree for one minute, to stay. It took a great deal of focus. I’m sorry he didn’t make it. 24 is such a tender time, becoming an adult, finding out that you still don’t know much, or feel much confidence.
This may or may not comfort you- at a take back the night march, there were speeches, and one speaker said, about women who’d been raped, that she didn’t marvel that they killed themselves, she marveled at how long they lived.
your son lived as long as he could, and I hope brought light to you and the world as best he could. I hope there were many gifts in the memory of your short time with him. It would be ok to marvel at how he lived. I wish I could come just sit with you.
Ramalama
@Ivan X: You’re really good. I love the sound. I love the drums and percussion. Also, everything else.
Gloria DryGarden
@Ramalama: fancy mocktails
Ramalama
@Liminal Owl: This is really good.
More art in this thread to stave off inclinations of doom lurking around the corners.
Ramalama
@Gloria DryGarden: I’m not crying.
Gloria DryGarden
@Ivan X: danced the whole way through it. Quite fabulous. It could be longer…
Gloria DryGarden
@Ramalama: i wish I knew what you’re trying to say.
Mowgli
@Gloria DryGarden: thank you so much for sharing your story and your support. Sadly, he would not share his secret battle, we only know about it since he died and gave us access to all his private writings. As someone who had so much empathy and care for others (especially his five siblings) I wonder how much of his decisions had to do with sparing others of the burden.
I am glad you are here and hope we can find better treatment options for people struggling with suicidal ideation, as well as end the stigma around mental health issues in general.
I will be crying for my son tonight when Harris becomes our President-elect, but it will be tears of joy as well, for a journey toward equality and hope that continues beyond each of our short lives.
Ramalama
@Gloria DryGarden: What you wrote was moving and heartbreaking. No snark!
Gloria DryGarden
@Mowgli: he must have felt so alone.
I’m glad you have his writings now. It sounds so hard.
It will be good to have Kamala as our president, holding up the possibility of a much wider more inclusive path for our country. She seems fierce, and gentle, and caring.
Gloria DryGarden
@Ramalama: oh. thank you. That’s a relief. I was bracing for it.
trollhattan
And here we go.
If I never hear another “Who did you vote for? And why?” interview again, I’ll be a very happy person. BBC managed to find a young gal this a.m. who “voted Republican across the ballot” despite her entire family “being Democrats” because a. “all her friends are Republican” (how does that even happen?) and b. “Donald Trump is not going to ban abortions, he said so, but today’s situation where you can have abortions even after birth is just wrong.”
The end.
Aziz, light!
A classic source.
Quinerly
@Ivan X:
💙💚💛🩵
Bostondreams
@Gloria DryGarden: 60% threshold is brutal. We could have well more than half of the state vote yes and still lose. I know it’s premature, sorry. But this state has been frustrating.
Uncle Cosmo
This. The MN-Senate race was close enough that the Thugs threw everything they could at the results and managed to delay Al Franken’s seating for months, probably hoping Ted Kennedy would die in the meantime – which he eventually did. Then they won the MA-Senate election to replace him when (IIRC) the Democratic candidate ran one of the most inept campaigns in recorded history, and sayonara 60th vote.
If the Democrats win the HoR and keep the Senate, I would expect a blizzard of Thuglican lawsuits aimed at keeping the new members from being seated – and if they manage to delay resolution past when the 119th Congress needs to certify the Presidential election results…well, I have no frackin’ clue what’ll happen.
I don’t intend to breathe easily until everything is settled, and I (sadly) don’t think that’ll be for weeks yet…if then.
Uncle Cosmo
Just FTR, 5 mins ago I got a text from (312) 757-3629 that reads
No hit on the domain name. A campaign with >$1Bn contributed and they need my $20?? Screams SCAM. Not $0.01 for them.
Florida frog
Just finished the 7:00 am poll watcher shift in NE Florida. Very busy but peaceful and well run. There was just the one MAGA loudmouth wondering out loud if his paper ballot would be secretly changed in the ballot box. The very polite poll worker refrained from pointing out that there is not a tiny gnome with a bottle of white out hiding in the box.
mr perfect
“Primal jobs, fraujulently claimed.” Where do I learn how to speak so eloquently?
The young lady falling asleep behind TFG at that rally, her young friends not sleeping look bored out of their minds. Think they’ll actually go to the polls and vote at all?
AnnaC
@VeniceRiley: I finished S2 of the Diplomat and it was awesome! So glad they’ve confirmed there will be a next season.