Someone here or elsewhere must have linked to this recently because I just found it in an open browser tab.
Given that I am on the hunt for constructive ways to handle the current awfulness, I was very happy to have seen this.
I would, in fact, love to meet the person who put that together! It appears the name is Lindsay Braman. Have you guys heard this name before? Perhaps following on social media? If so, I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments
Omnes Omnibus
This fits with what I was saying in the thread below. We can’t react the same way to all the outrages that are coming our way. We will burn out. Everyone has to find their issues. Fight how you can, where you can. You have to let the rest go. Not because the other things aren’t horrible, they are. You just can’t do all the outrage.
This also means extending grace to people whose choices end up being different to yours. They aren’t rejecting your issues. You aren’t rejecting theirs.
HinTN
@Omnes Omnibus: Grace is the vital word.
scav
@Omnes Omnibus: That and don’t sneer at people working alone. Some of us are built that way.
Omnes Omnibus
@scav: I just have resting sneering face. Sorry.
cope
Here’s her website:
https://lindsaybraman.com/
Some other interesting things on there as well.
Elizabelle
I like the “Uh… No” part.
There, jackals, is your American voting populace, the dangerous part.
@Omnes Omnibus: Good advice.
Kay
HUGE walk back on Trumps promise of lower prices on Meet The Press. Now he can’t “guarantee” that.
How media and Republicans continue to believe a word this clown says amazes me – you can’t cure stupid.
scav
@Omnes Omnibus: Well, you might but not in this instance — or maybe I missed it? The little flow gizmo seemed a bit activist group loaded. We need a font to distinguish agreeing and building upon replies and the are you nuts sort. Too many fonts.
H.E.Wolf
Develop the ability to find satisfaction and pleasure in taking a small, concrete action to make something a little bit better.
I’ve updated a couple of thousand voter addresses since the election, one at a time. Looked at from one angle, that’s (a) invisible, (b) ridiculous, (c) boring.
Looked at another way, those are 2,000 voters who will be reachable at the next local election. And I’ve had the pleasure of imagining them happy in their new abodes!
I bet their birthdays show up on their digital clocks, too. :-)
scav
@H.E.Wolf: May all your zip codes be text fields. Clean data may outrank godliness.
Elizabelle
@Kay: I would be interested in seeing a transcript. Which I would want to know if it was sanewashed or not.
The Felon’s Vichy Times headline: Trump Lays Out Agenda in Extended Interview
BezosWaPost headline: Trump says members of January 6 committee should be jailed.
I ask you: which is more informative?
HinTN
@Omnes Omnibus: Is that successful in court? 😎
trollhattan
I don’t see a box for “Remain rat in cage.”
HinTN
@Kay: I hope some industrious soul is collecting those promises and the inevitable walking back, putting them side by side and finishing with, “Trump lied to you!”
TBone
Tiedrich is a wonderful anger translator, and his prolific use of descriptive expletives always makes me feel better. Expresses the outrage and helps me sit through the pain, ready to move on afterwards.
https://www.jefftiedrich.com/p/the-ny-times-is-now-sanewashing-the
Skewers, anyone?
Omnes Omnibus
@HinTN: I can fake sincerity real good.
Kay
@Elizabelle:
I just saw 3 minutes on TikTok but it looks like a competent interview. When did they start couching every question with “experts say…” though? Its defensive and cowed. He said prices would come down. She can ask him if he’ll guarantee that without leaning on “experts”
That profession is just ruined. I don’t how they restore it.
billcoop4
Always be sincere, whether you mean it or not.
BC
HinTN
@Omnes Omnibus: Hell Yes, By God
dc
@H.E.Wolf: Thank you! The beach needs every grain of sand to fill up, let us all contribute ours however we can.
O. Felix Culpa
I’m eschewing outrage. Nothing that the incoming maladministration is doing or says it will do is surprising, and I’m not going to jump like an angry monkey every time they poke us with a stick. I’ll figure out quiet ways to help the vulnerable wherever possible, and the rest is out of my hands.
Another Scott
ICYMI, Medium.com – Obama at the 2024 Democracy Forum:
This makes a lot of sense to me. We always have to find ways to work with fellow humans, even while we – when we must – vehemently disagree with some of the things they’re trying to do. And even when too many the folks on the other side have little or no interest in working with us.
Worth a click.
(via HCR’s substack/email from December 7).
Hang in there, everyone.
Best wishes,
Scott.
Jackie
@billcoop4:
I’m great at faking sincereness – my grandkiddos are gullible lol
Elizabelle
@O. Felix Culpa:
Yes! Which means, for me, that I should limit online time, because it is filled with rage-farming and seeing ugly stuff.
(The truck mistermix used to illustrate the following post is both descriptive and depressing. Cannot look at it one more time. ETA: Obviously, got to learn to desensitize myself to that kind of stuff.)
Ella in New Mexico
A few posts back Watergirl asked us to tell what little things gave us some happiness and respite from the minute by minute firehose of crazy things Trump and his minions think they’re going to do and I gloomily replied with “we’re basically fucked”.
Yesterday my daughter-in-law graduated (at 31 weeks pregnant with our second grandchild no less!) from our CNM CC nursing program and is going to be the latest RN in the family. My own daughter graduated in August, her male cousin in December 2023, and my other daughter in law, daughter of South Korean immigrants, is an RN and a Nurse Practioner working at the VA now. I’m so excited about this new, dynamic, intelligent and hard working, caring group of young people coming into our profession. When I watched the diversity of young, new grads yesterday waking across the stage it brough tears to my eyes. From refugee familes barely speaking English, to Native Americans in their tribe’s indiginious dress, to a transgender female who was a leader in the class, to non-traditional graduates with kids and spouses and family in the audience screaming in joy for their accomplishments.
When I listen to clips of Trump and his choade hoard, they are gleefully blathering like they are now free from any restraint or the Consitution or rule of law or better yet–push back from Congress, state and local governments and the people–and they are wrong. Thing is, they’re literally blurting out their playbook like rogue NFL coaches on a 3 sleepless night crack bender. They’re telling us ahead of time where to block and fight. All we need is to do is listen and take notes. And use them against them next year.
Some of their crap will start happening, just like it did the last time Trump stepped off the dais from his swearing in. I do see him trying to pull a Yoon at some point as well, which will go over about as well as it did in South Korea. But many won’t —can’t—fly, it’s pretty apparent. And it’s going to be chaos for quite a while with not only his loser cabinate nominees but with the narrow margins Congress is working in. I think we can take back the House and Senate in 2 years to halt a lot of them if we can delay them.
But it took something really dignifiying, bright and hopeful like a small nursing school graduation to remind me: We got this.
I’m gonna try harder, now, for them. Mentoring and precepting RNs, NPs and PAs will be one of my focuses this year. Working in whatever way can to try and solve Albuquerque’s very serious homeless problem will be my second. Sucking up every minute with my granddaughters and family is always gonna be top of my priorities. I’m done letting the gloom and doom and ugliness define my outlook, keep me immobilized, as bleak as it may seem.
TBone
@Ella in New Mexico: very, very awesome! Reminds me of the St. Mary the Buddhist story (Fulghum). The Why we fight: love in action.
https://www.robertleefulghum.com/saint-mary-the-buddhist/
trollhattan
@Jackie:
Believe “well bless your heart” is the benchmark.
WTFGhost
I’ve seen some bad flow charts (we all have, amirite?) and some good ones – one for discussion of potential data loss included “restore from backup.” The “I don’t have backups!” pointed to “update resume; leave town.” because, at that level, you knew you needed backups, or you were dumb as a post.
That’s a *good* flowchart, up to and including “you’re at risk? Don’t try to save us – get help.”
Random thought: remember Total Recall, Arnie and all? There’s a line in it I *love*.
“Don’t think! I don’t give you enough information to think!”
Yeah, I know, the joke is “I don’t pay you to think!” but, “you don’t know enough to think!” actually *makes sense*. “Do what you’re told, or, do what you’d do if you were stone cold stupid, because I don’t yet trust you enough with enough information to *think*” is actually pretty good advice, for a boss who knows how to give the right instructions.
DEBG
@Another Scott: Fabulous. Thanks for posting–it’s hitting home for me on several levels.
I have just gotten involved with an Indivisible chapter near me. It’s scary, given my personality quirks, but it will be interesting. I’ll share this with my work group.
DEBG
@Ella in New Mexico: I love everything about your comments. Congrats to the new grads.
Ella in New Mexico
@TBone: So sweet, so true.
I really thought I’d lost my ability to feel hope, to use the teachings from Buddhism and Christianity that sustained me so much over the decades. Even before the election, my gut was feeling doom, like I knew what was gonna happen. I’ve been in a pretty bad spiritual place for a couple of months, its been hard. I’m so grateful to the Universe for the little rays of hope that are peeking back into my soul.