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You are here: Home / Absent Friends / RIP, Athelbert

RIP, Athelbert

by Anne Laurie|  April 5, 20144:58 pm| 43 Comments

This post is in: Absent Friends, Dog Blogging, Pet Rescue

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By request, from commentor Smedley Darlington Prunebanks (formerly Mumphrey, et al.) :

We had to let our dog Athelbert go on Wednesday. He was 12 or 13 and he had prostate cancer. Seems they can help people with prostate cancer, but they don’t yet know how to do it with dogs. We were with him when he went, so maybe that helped him a little. It helped us, at least.

I met him in Tela, Honduras on the beach in 2003. I brought him to the U.S. in 2005, and he lived with us ever since. He was a good friend, which is about the best thing you can say about anybody, I guess. Tomorrow I’ll take him down to my mother’s house in the country and bury him. It’s so weird not having him around. I keep finding myself thinking that it’s time to take him out or feed him. And the 200 mile trip to my mother’s house will seem unreal without him making me scratch his head the whole way down.

His name was actually Aþelbert, with a “þ”, but in a pinch, I spelled it with a “th”. It might seem odd that a Honduran dog would have an Old English name, but that’s just the kind of guy he was. He didn’t play by anybody else’s rules.

Vaya con Dios, Athelbert. I’m gonna go give my guys some extra attention now…

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  1. 1.

    raven

    April 5, 2014 at 5:00 pm

    This is the second time today I’ve sent this.

    We who choose to surround ourselves
    with lives even more temporary than our
    own, live within a fragile circle;
    easily and often breached.
    Unable to accept its awful gaps,
    we would still live no other way.
    We cherish memory as the only
    certain immortality, never fully
    understanding the necessary plan.
    — Irving Townsend

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    Mnemosyne

    April 5, 2014 at 5:01 pm

    What a cutie — I love the “one ear up” picture.

    Cancer is hard in pets because most vets don’t feel that it’s ethical to put an animal through the same amount of suffering we put humans through (with the human’s consent, which is where the sticking point is).

  3. 3.

    Jane2

    April 5, 2014 at 5:02 pm

    What a handsome boy….RIP, Athelbert… and condolences to the family.

  4. 4.

    pluky

    April 5, 2014 at 5:04 pm

    @Mnemosyne: Absolutely. And having seen what it can do to spinal nerves, I wouldn’t wish end-stage prostrate cancer on anyone.

  5. 5.

    raven

    April 5, 2014 at 5:07 pm

    @Mnemosyne: Our Raven had an anal carcinoma and we did the whole deal, surgery, chemo and radiation. It was really awful on the little dude and, while he made it 2 1/2 years, we say we wouldn’t do it again after seeing what it did to him.

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    Villago Delenda Est

    April 5, 2014 at 5:08 pm

    Sadness indeed, he was clearly a pooch to be remembered. Mnemosyne is right about the one ear up picture…just delightful.

    And Dick Cheney still lives. There is no justice!

    Deepest sympathies to the family.

  7. 7.

    the Conster

    April 5, 2014 at 5:12 pm

    Adios Athelbert. Safe journeys, and we’ll see y’all later.

  8. 8.

    SiubhanDuinne

    April 5, 2014 at 5:12 pm

    Oh, Smedley, I’m so sorry. Aþelbert looks like a sweetie. Thanks for sharing your memories of him. A pup like that will leave a big hole.

  9. 9.

    cbear

    April 5, 2014 at 5:17 pm

    What a cute pup. So sorry for your loss, Smedley.

  10. 10.

    JPL

    April 5, 2014 at 5:44 pm

    @Villago Delenda Est: Yes but only one will go to heaven and it ain’t dick. btw all dogs go to heaven where there are tennis balls and treats.
    RIP Athelbert.

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    PurpleGirl

    April 5, 2014 at 5:53 pm

    Those pictures are really cute, of a cute doggie. I hope all the good memories you have of him will comfort you. RIP Athelbert. (A regal name for a regal pet.)

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    Biscuits

    April 5, 2014 at 5:58 pm

    Pets can come into our lives in the most interesting ways. So their passing can be tough, even when you know it’s coming, doesn’t make it any easier. Never cried so hard as when I had to put our beloved Mike kitty down. Sorry for your loss. He was adorable.

  13. 13.

    Dee Loralei

    April 5, 2014 at 6:06 pm

    So sorry for your loss. He was special. And I loved the pics and story.

  14. 14.

    satby

    April 5, 2014 at 6:20 pm

    Sorry to hear about the passing of your buddy Athelbert, Smedley. It was good (and courageous) to let him go peacefully and in your arms rather than suffer.

  15. 15.

    kc

    April 5, 2014 at 6:22 pm

    What a cute pup. My condolences, Smedley.

  16. 16.

    Josie

    April 5, 2014 at 6:25 pm

    So sorry for your loss. I know how hard that must have been for you, but you made it easier for him.

  17. 17.

    BubbaDave

    April 5, 2014 at 6:26 pm

    My condolences, Smedley. Clearly a character, in all the best ways.

  18. 18.

    Elizabelle

    April 5, 2014 at 6:28 pm

    Mumphrey: what a beautiful dog. Kind of the David Bowie of canines, with the different colored eyes. He really was photogenic. His charm shows.

    I’m sorry for your loss. Am sure he was very happy in the Smedley … Mumphrey household.

    Best to you.

  19. 19.

    Ferdzy

    April 5, 2014 at 6:37 pm

    Those were irresistable ears! My condolences.

  20. 20.

    WaterGirl

    April 5, 2014 at 6:42 pm

    I am so sorry. Sending you love and strength for the trip to your mom’s.

  21. 21.

    RoonieRoo

    April 5, 2014 at 6:44 pm

    He looks like our Gregor, if he was yellow which made me even tearier reading your good-bye to Athelbert. I’m so sorry for your loss Smedley.

  22. 22.

    eemom

    April 5, 2014 at 6:58 pm

    I’m very sorry, Smedley. Athelbert was a beautiful and sweet doggie.

    I’ve been through this twice since last fall — our two beloved doggies the same age as him (also with us since 2003) passed in November and February, exactly 3 months apart. It sucks, sucks, sucks.

    Why the best of all creatures have such short lives is a mystery I’ll never solve.

  23. 23.

    geg6

    April 5, 2014 at 7:01 pm

    Those ears! Love!

    So sorry for your loss of Athelbert, Mumphrey. He looked as regal as his name. As someone steeling herself to do the same for one of mine one day soon (not too soon, FSM be merciful), I really feel for you.

  24. 24.

    Karen in GA

    April 5, 2014 at 7:06 pm

    He looks happy — he knew he was a very loved little boy.

    Rest in peace, Athelbert.

  25. 25.

    maya

    April 5, 2014 at 7:12 pm

    Athelbert was a real buddy to you. The head scratches, the conversations, the routines of feeding and walking and, yes, even trips to the vet are the cement that bonds a pet with their partners. Death can’t take away any of those memories. While repairing the road today I stopped by the graves of two of my dogs. They are out on a sunny knoll next to the road. And I remembered. Sorry for your loss.

  26. 26.

    Darkrose

    April 5, 2014 at 7:16 pm

    RIP Adelbert. My condolences.

  27. 27.

    Betty Cracker

    April 5, 2014 at 7:21 pm

    May the memories of your time together comfort you in the coming days. My deepest condolences.

  28. 28.

    WereBear

    April 5, 2014 at 7:23 pm

    Condolences on the loss of a good friend.

    Per The Far Side, every hour a truck made entirely of pressed ham drives slowly through Doggie Heaven.

    I’m sure he’s there.

  29. 29.

    Ruckus

    April 5, 2014 at 7:43 pm

    Mumphrey, Sorry about your good friend Athelbert. I don’t wish cancer on any animal.

  30. 30.

    Stacy

    April 5, 2014 at 8:08 pm

    Love the jaunty ear. Kind of reminds me of a beret sitting on his head at an angle. RIP little doggy.

  31. 31.

    seefleur

    April 5, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    He was the flipside of our dog Emma – color him black and that’s what she was. From the expression on his face, he was well aware that he was loved. You gave him a good life and allowed him to have a good death. If only that were the case for every creature, two-legged and four-legged. My sympathies/empathy on your loss.

  32. 32.

    LanceThruster

    April 5, 2014 at 8:44 pm

    As heartbreaking as this is, I am *always* happy for any companion animal that has had a good run with a loving family. You cannot ask for better.

    Sincere and warm condolences.

  33. 33.

    Jebediah, RBG

    April 5, 2014 at 9:21 pm

    So sorry you had to say good bye to your good friend. In this situation, I sometimes try to focus on the kind of life I tried to give them. I am sure you gave him an awesome life.

  34. 34.

    MazeDancer

    April 5, 2014 at 9:50 pm

    RIP, sweet puppy. What a wonderful thing to rescue a dog from Honduras. Many condolences.

  35. 35.

    Jackie

    April 5, 2014 at 9:51 pm

    Athelbert’s one ear up/one ear down just shows he had an awesome personality! RIP, puppy. You gave him a GREAT life and that’s all we can wish for anyone we love. Jackie

  36. 36.

    a hip hop artist from Idaho (fka Bella Q)

    April 5, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    They leave such big paw prints on our hearts. I hope your memories are comforting, and I’m sorry to hear of your loss.

  37. 37.

    Woodrowfan

    April 5, 2014 at 11:26 pm

    I am so sorry. What a great looking dog… I’m sure you gave him lots and lots of love…

  38. 38.

    MoeLarryAndJesus

    April 6, 2014 at 12:04 am

    Athelbert! Great name for a much-loved dude.

    RIP.

  39. 39.

    Kristine

    April 6, 2014 at 12:46 am

    I am very sorry.

  40. 40.

    Mary Brown

    April 6, 2014 at 9:37 am

    Thoughts are with you. Great pictures.

  41. 41.

    StringOnAStick

    April 6, 2014 at 10:04 am

    You are such a kind person to rescue a dog from a country where dog life is short and hard; I’m sure it wasn’t easy ‘importing’ a dog. He was obviously well loved and cared for. So sorry for your loss.

  42. 42.

    Joy in FL

    April 6, 2014 at 12:50 pm

    What a beautiful dog and friend. I’m so glad you had him and he had you.

  43. 43.

    Smedley Darlington Prunebanks (formerly Mumphrey, et al.)

    April 6, 2014 at 6:34 pm

    Hola. Thank you for all the good wishes. I just got back from burying him next to my mother’s fig tree. He’s with a slew of his comrades, a few of whom he never even met. I pulled into the driveway, and the thought popped up into my head, “Aþelbert’ll be glad to see me back.” It’ll take a good while before those thoughts don’t just pop in unbidden. He was a cool dude. I don’t know how he got the ears, but there was at least one other dog in Tela who hung around with him who had the one-up-one-down thing going, so I guess it’s the fashion down there. He made it look damned good…

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