Several decades ago I bought a great book called How to Make Yourself Miserable.
As you might guess from the title, it’s written in a “how to” format, and it’s quite humorous as it points out the ways we humans make ourselves miserable.
There’s a fun section about throwing a party. Worry that no one will come. Worry that too many people will come, and there won’t be enough room for everyone! Worry that you might not have enough food. Worry that you will have too much food! And so on.
One of my favorite parts includes step-by-step instructions on How to End a Deep Romantic Relationship. My memory is hazy on the details, but I think he offered two or three difference scenarios for doing that. (I might have resembled one of them!)
I cannot find my copy; I think it’s in a box somewhere that I packed up when the carpeting was being installed in my sunroom. Found it!
Anyway, I’m pretty sure we could write our own chapter about protests.
- What if nobody comes? What if too many people come?
- What if a lot of people show up, but they aren’t the right kind of people?
- Worry that 6 million people around the world might not be enough!
- Worry that our elected officials won’t care.
- Worry that even if a hundred million people show up, none of them will be Trump voters and no one will care.
Speaking of which, did everything fizzle out after the initial protests?
I’m also pretty sure we could write our own chapter about elections.
- What would that chapter look like, if we were to write it?
- Can we write down all our worries, and then make sure we don’t let them derail us?
Seriously, sometimes I think we are our own worst enemy. Perfect is the enemy of the good, and second guessing and nitpicking are exhausting.
Open thread.

