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Some Excellent News

by John Cole|  December 8, 20222:51 pm| 144 Comments

This post is in: Gay Rights Are human Rights

This is great:

The House on Thursday passed landmark legislation that would enshrine marriage equality in federal law, granting protections to same-sex and interracial couples and clearing the way for President Biden’s signature.

“Today, Congress sends the Respect for Marriage Act to the president’s desk, a glorious triumph of love and freedom,” said House Speaker Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.), quoting the gay rights activist Edith Windsor in comparing marriage to magic. “This legislation honors that magic, protecting it from bigoted extremism, defending the inviolability of the same-sex and interracial marriages.”

The House had already passed an earlier version of the Respect for Marriage Act in July, but the Senate delayed its vote on the bill until after the midterm elections. Late last month, the Senate passed the bill with a bipartisan amendment to allay some Republicans’ concerns about religious liberty. The amended bill passed the Senate in a 61-36 vote, with 12 Republican senators joining Democrats in favor of it.

Biden, Pelosi, and Schumer just keep getting shit done, and I gotta say I am still shocked how much Biden and Schumer have done. Nancy is Nancy and I knew she would come through, but the other two surprise me.

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Voice and exit

by David Anderson|  September 9, 20221:36 pm| 83 Comments

This post is in: Gay Rights Are human Rights, Open Threads, Women's Rights Are Human Rights

Voice and exit are the two ways that people in shitty situations can attempt to influence their local environment. As a reminder, always know where your immediate exit line lies:

Apropos this horror show: if you have a job—if you exchange your labor for money in any way—you should know what your quit-on-the-spot red line is. You should write it down and keep that paper in a safe place. And you should re-read it regularly. https://t.co/ROhZoCOPO2

— Laura Davulis (@Davulis) September 9, 2022

 

Open thread.

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Tuesday Evening Open Thread: Respect for Marriage, and Other Human Rights

by Anne Laurie|  July 19, 202210:49 pm| 39 Comments

This post is in: Balloon Juice, Civil Rights, Commentary, Gay Rights Are human Rights, Open Threads, Proud To Be A Democrat!

And 47 Republicans voted *for* it. Now, as NBC News points out, we need at least 10 Repub Senators to find some human dignity:

The House passed the Respect For Marriage Act Tuesday to codify legal same-sex marriage nationwide, fearing that the conservative majority on the Supreme Court will rescind the right after it overturned Roe v. Wade last month.

The vote was 267-157, with 47 Republicans supporting it.

The bill would repeal the Defense of Marriage Act of 1996, enshrine legal same-sex marriage for the purposes of federal law, and add legal protections for married couples of the same sex…

House Democrats plan to vote later this week on a similar bill to codify the right to contraception, which was established by a more liberal Supreme Court in the 1965 Griswold v. Connecticut ruling.

Rep. Mondaire Jones, D-N.Y., who is openly gay, emphasized the importance of Congress stepping in to protect same-sex marriage rights. “Imagine telling the next generation, my generation, we no longer have the right to marry who we love. Congress can’t allow that to happen,” he said.

Speaker Nancy Pelosi said the bill would “enshrine into law a fundamental freedom: the right to marry whomever you choose.”

“As radical justices and right-wing politicians continue their assault on our basic rights, Democrats believe that the government has no place between you and the person you love,” she said.

Rep. Jim Jordan of Ohio, the top Republican on the Judiciary Committee, blasted the legislation as “the latest installment of the Democrats’ campaign to attempt to intimidate the United States Supreme Court.”…

The legislation now goes to the Senate, where its prospects are uncertain, as it requires at least 10 Republican votes to defeat a filibuster. So far the same-sex marriage protections have only one GOP backer: Sen. Susan Collins of Maine.

The proposal has put GOP senators in a bind, caught between their culturally conservative base, which opposes same-sex marriage, and a large majority of the country that wants it to remain legal…

As I said, when Massachusetts was the first state to legalize marriage equality, it’s amazing how quickly opposition ebbs when ‘normal’ voters discover how much the new law doesn’t change anything in their own lives (except for maybe making some of their family members, acquaintances, and neighbors inexplicably happier).

Marriage equality is a constitutional right. That’s why we must pass the Respect for Marriage Act, which enshrines and protects same-sex and interracial marriages.

We owe it to families to defend their right to live freely, and prevent far-right justices from taking it away. pic.twitter.com/iG9oP6jqGn

— Rep. Ted Lieu (@RepTedLieu) July 19, 2022

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Justice Thomas told us that this far-right Supreme Court is coming for marriage equality. As one of only nine openly gay members of this Congress, this attack is as personal as it gets.

Our community is counting on Congress to act. We need to pass the Respect for Marriage Act. pic.twitter.com/EGsOM53zmx

— Rep. Mondaire Jones (@RepMondaire) July 19, 2022

Actually, the Respect for Marriage Act would:
Repeal DOMA
Enshrine marriage equality for federal law purposes
Provide additional legal protections such as prohibiting states from denying recognition of an out of state marriage based on the sex, race, ethnicity or national origin https://t.co/iPt1nT1wdV

— GLAAD (@glaad) July 19, 2022

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Late Night Open Thread: Very Normal People, Baymax Edition

by Anne Laurie|  July 6, 20225:21 am| 19 Comments

This post is in: Civil Rights, Gay Rights Are human Rights, Open Threads, Popular Culture

here is the scene from baymax with the trans man without linking back to a transphobe/giving a transphobe clout pic.twitter.com/rBMh9rtNwR

— $ ELIANA $ (@loveIabor) June 29, 2022

It’s a few seconds in an online cartoon, how many people actually care… Oh.

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IMO, this is the clip that actually knots the ‘conservative’ knickers. Your body may change, but you are still you…

Like i wish baymax was my father pic.twitter.com/gUnjIRvao3

— riss ?? (@harpyeda) June 29, 2022

This goes on my viewing list, in the aspiration that I’ll cut back on doomscrolling enough to merit subscribing. More here, including a trailer:

‘Baymax!’ Creators Discuss the Return of the Loveable Healthcare Robot

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Staying Safe While Protesting Redux

by Adam L Silverman|  July 1, 20222:32 am| 33 Comments

This post is in: Balloon Juice, Civil Rights, Commentary, Domestic Politics, Gay Rights Are human Rights, Open Threads, Organizing & Resistance, Our Failed Political Establishment, Politics, Silverman on Security, The War On Women, Women's Rights

I have been informed that a number of you all were asking if we could repost my suggestions for staying safe while protesting. Watergirl was good enough to proactively go and dig at least one of the versions/reposts of the original post from December 2018. We’ll resume our war updates tomorrow night.

I’ve made an addition or two to the original list, but if you’ve decided you need to go to a march or a rally, the list below is for you.

I want to remind everyone that we’ve seen a number of acts of violence, by both domestic right wing extremists like the Proud Boys or Patriot Front and from law enforcement, directed at people attending both Pride events and marches and rallies in the wake of the Supreme Court’s ruling in Dobbs. We have also seen at least one individual decide to drive around oncoming traffic in an attempt to murder marchers by driving over them in his truck. Given that a number of states have passed laws allowing drivers to treat marchers and rally goers in the street as threats and because they’re threats drive over them, please check your state laws to see whether that might be something you need to worry about.

(Originally posted on 18 December 2016)

Congress shall make no law… abridging…the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances. — Amendment 1, Bill of Rights, US Constitution

One of our readers/commenters emailed me about a week ago and asked if I would put up a post about personal security for those going to peaceably assemble to petition the Government for a redress of grievances. I put a list together and ran it past a select group of our Balloon Juice legal eagles (those I’ve corresponded with before/have corresponded with me, so if you didn’t get asked, don’t be insulted I didn’t want to just impose on you with a cold request) – thank you all for getting back to me. Here’s my list of what I think anyone going to peacefully assemble should do to enhance their personal security.

  1. Go with a buddy, that way you have at least one person looking out for you/watching your back and vice versa.
  2. Carry cash and make sure to carry a valid picture ID!
  3. Bring a pocket flashlight.
  4. Get and wear a go pro that is automatically updating to the cloud.
  5. Bring a pocket charger for your cell phone and go pro regardless of whether it is supposed to be a long day.
  6. I you’re bringing them with you, make sure your personal electronic devices – phones, tablets, and wearables like smart watches – all have sufficient password protection and encryption on them. And have them set to upload to the cloud at a regular interval.
  7. Turn off fingerprint, face, or other biometric access to unlock your phone and delete your finger prints, face scans, and/or other biometris from the memory. Some jurisdictions allow law enforcement to compel you to unlock your phone if it has finger print or face scan based access. Or get a disposable phone just for this occasion.
  8. Turn off your phone and other personal electronic devices option to connect to known WiFi as it can be used as a way to fail your encryption. Also, turn off the GPS locators and tracking on them as well!
  9. Bring a bandana or neck gaiter and water so you can make a make shift gas mask in case things get out of hand and tear gas or pepper spray is deployed.
  10. Bring a couple of bottles of saline eye rinse in case you need to rinse your eyes out if tear gas or pepper spray is deployed.
  11. Bring plenty of water and some snacks to make sure you’re properly hydrated and you’ve got enough fuel in your system to get through the day.
  12. Dress in layers so you are prepared for the weather and make sure you have good shoes/boots and a change of socks in case they should get wet. A set of silk base layer undersocks is a good idea regardless of the weather. They’ll help keep your feet warm or cool as needed and they’ll provide some protection in case your shoes/boots and socks get wet. And something to keep the back of your neck and your ears warm if you’re going to be someplace cold.
  13. Bring/wear a hat to keep the sun off your head or to keep it warm depending on the weather.
  14. Bring/wear eye protection. Specifically sunglasses that are impact rated. (You should be able to pick up military surplus ones pretty cheap).
  15. Sunscreen, skin moisturizer, and lip balm. Even if its cold you’ll need these.
  16. If you need to take regular/routine prescription medication: bring it in its original container, with the prescription details on the label. If its a gel based application and comes in a packet, make sure you’ve got a hard copy of the prescription with you.
  17. Be aware of your surroundings at all times. You don’t have to be paranoid, but have a sufficient level of situational awareness. If something looks and/or feels hinky or the hair on the back of your neck stands up, head on home or go get a drink and something or go back to your hotel. Know who and what is around you, keep your valuables in front pockets or in secure/securable purses/bags, and keep those where they can’t be easily snatched or accessed.
  18. Have a contact plan for both linking up and communicating in case one gets separated from anyone you’re with.
  19. Have a contact plan to stay in touch with someone who isn’t at the march, but knows that you’re there and a regular set of contact times.
  20. Have a lawyer you can contact if necessary and that your outside contact could contact if you don’t check in. Make sure you have all of your contact’s phone numbers memorized in case your phone is damaged or taken by law enforcement should the worst happen and you’re arrested. Write them on your arm in sharpie if you want double redundancy.
  21. Bring a sharpie to take down badge numbers if necessary. And if necessary write them on your hand.
  22. This is a new one: Put together a first aid kit and buy a velcro attaching red cross patch to place on it. The minimum basics should be: saline solution, at least two tourniquets, at least two Israeli bandages, and quick clot – both the gauze pads and the granule applicator system – in addition to the basics like band aids, regular gauze, both cloth coaches tape and paper tape, antibac gel, anti-burn/sunburn spray or gel, anti-itch gel, etc. We have unfortunately reached the point where everyone should have tourniquets and quickclot with them all the time.

Should the worst happen and you get caught up in a peaceable assembly that suddenly turns not so peaceable or that law enforcement decides to declare an unlawful assembly so they can brake things up:

  1. Do not resist law enforcement. Just do what they say, let your arms go limp, and do what you can to avoid a reflex response to resist – that can get you charged with assault on a law enforcement officer.
  2. Be respectful and polite when dealing with the authorities – law enforcement, the National Park Service, whoever.
  3. If you are arrested, ask for a lawyer and then shut up. Do not say anything else or answer any other questions until your lawyer arrives. In fact let the lawyer do the talking.
  4. And make sure you have the name and phone number of the attorney you want, if you have a preference, ready to go. Memorize it and write it on your arm in sharpie!

One last item: some of you probably carry a pocket knife or multi-tool everywhere. Or everywhere that you’re normally allowed. I would recommend not carrying anything on your possession that could be construed as a concealed weapon or even an openly carried one. Even if you’re in a state/jurisdiction that allows for concealed or open carry of knives and/or other weapons – don’t. Being part of a march or peaceful assembly that turns ugly is not a good time to attempt firearms (or knife) normalization.

Stay Frosty!

Open thread!

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Sunday Evening Open Thread: Take Pride

by Anne Laurie|  June 26, 202210:53 pm| 34 Comments

This post is in: Civil Rights, Gay Rights Are human Rights, Open Threads

HAPPENING NOW: Crush of people at Seattle Pride parade that’s now passing through the downtown core. Some of loudest cheers so far have been for Magnolia Boy Scouts and abortion rights marchers. Thousands of people out and enjoying day. #Pride #SeattlePride #LGBTQ #RoeVsWade pic.twitter.com/yTjNAH96wQ

— Jonathan Choe Journalist (@choeshow) June 26, 2022

‘Boy Scouts’ was trending on Twitter, so I clicked. Of course there’s a predictable clamor from the revanchists, but these tweets were all near the top.

Never forget: It really hasn’t been that long (mid-1980s, in my personal experience) since many decent, honest ‘average’ Americans could believe they’d never even met a gay person, much less someone in their immediate circle of friends & relatives…

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It was so much fun to celebrate and support the LGBTQ+ community at the Houston pride parade yesterday with @MomsDemand. Sadly, LGBTQ+ face higher risk of becoming victims of gun violence.

Join us next time! Text ACT to 644-33 and help keep our communities safe. pic.twitter.com/FBXG9LYdg7

— Karie (@karie_houtx) June 26, 2022

San Antonio’s Pride parade was a joyous celebration of our city’s LGBTQ+ community and a testament to the progress our country has made.

The work to protect LGBTQ+ rights continues — and we will not allow extremists to turn back the clock on freedom. #PrideMonth pic.twitter.com/fsvxqhqPQW

— Joaquin Castro (@JoaquinCastrotx) June 26, 2022

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Open Thread: Hate Will Not Win ***Reposted***

by TaMara|  June 25, 20221:46 pm| Leave a Comment

This post is in: Balloon Juice, Civil Rights, Commentary, Gay Rights Are human Rights, Go Fuck Yourself, Open Threads

From Starrlet O’Hara:

Regarding The Incident At PRIDE

First and foremost, I need to thank everyone who has reached out to me this week. If I haven’t responded, please know that I do appreciate your concern and your kind words. I just needed a minute to process this before I addressed it.

I was on stage for our Rust Belt Theater family friendly Kids Show, getting ready to announce the next performer… When a man with a megaphone rushed out of the crowd. He called me a “pervert.” He said that I was “grooming” and “indoctrinating” children. He was also filming my reaction.

My first instinct was to tackle him. I did not. My second instinct was to scream back at him. I did not. I have been doing theater for children for over 25 years. As a performer I am always hyper aware of my audience and what I consider to be APPROPRIATE, especially when it comes to young people. In the words of the late, great Stephen Sondheim:

“Careful the things you say,
children will listen.
Careful things you do,
children will see.
And learn.”

What I COULD do, was counter his message with my own, because the only way to banish the DARKNESS is to turn on a LIGHT. I took a deep breath, closed my eyes and started to sing. The first words that came to my mouth were…

“Somewhere over the rainbow, way up high…”

It’s a song my Nana used to sing to me, probably the first song I ever learned all of the words to. It has always been a source of comfort for me when I needed it, and in that moment it was there for me once again.

The man with megaphone got LOUDER. He began to circle me, getting closer, becoming more and more agitated, screaming at the crowd…The crowd of CHILDREN, telling them I was a MONSTER. I was terrified, but I was determined not to show it.

“There’s a land that I heard of once in a lullaby.”

Then something unexpected happened…One by one, beginning with Esther Gin and Mrs. Goutfire, the other performers joined me. They linked arms with me, and started to sing along. We were then joined by people in the audience, singing in unison. Together we drowned his message of HATE with our message of HOPE. He had a megaphone, but I had a family.

In the end he ran off, pursued not by parents, not by security, but by queer and nonbinary teenagers. They were wearing pride flags as capes, like the heroes that they are.

“Birds fly over the rainbow, why then oh why can’t I?”

By the end of the song, the darkness was gone, banished by the light. By progress. By the future. Afterward, several people asked me if it was all part of the show. I promise you it was not

After it happened I was determined not to let anyone see me cry. I took a moment in the dressing room to get myself together, and we just continued with the show…Because that’s what we do. And what we do is important. This incident was a reminder of just HOW important.

Anyway….thank you for indulging me, and allowing me to get this out. I have been struggling with it all week and I’m hoping that writing down the experience will ease my mind a little. The anxiety, and especially the nightmares have been brutal. My mind is not always as kind to me as perhaps it should be.

“If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow…Why, oh why can’t I?”

Please know that I love all of you, no matter what.

Here is a photo from that day with my two nieces, Ellie and Ema, who rode on the pride float with me.

“Careful the tale you tell
That is the spell,
Children will listen…”

-Robert Dennick Joki
AKA Starrlet O’Hara

Be an ally. This hate cannot stand.

Someone asked me what to do if you’re afraid, afraid to confront the crazy person, afraid they are going to turn violent, but you still want to do something?  I agreed that confrontation is not the best response in this day of every bully has a gun.

I responded that if all you do is stand silent in solidarity beside someone who is the target of this hate, that means they are not standing alone. Hold their hand, put an arm around them. That can be more powerful than shouting back at the crazy.

Hate WILL NOT WIN

But I am afraid things are going to get worse before we turn the ship around. But we’ll only turn the ship around if we all stand up and say “this is not okay.”

Anyway, this is an open thread. I’m going to go pour some more coffee, maybe pet a critter or two so I can calm the fuck down.

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