IvanX, I have always liked you! And now even more so.
Ok, like, I know I’m being stupid and naïve, but can we not make it so hot and personal in these threads?
Can we not call each other names and insults? We’re all readers of this blog. We might be getting on each others’ nerves, but can we not flay each other?
A) there are a lot of people here who are relieved and/or happy it’s Harris and not Biden. I’m in this camp.
B) there are a lot of people here who are angry it’s Harris not Biden, and feel they, and Biden, were cheated because of how things went down. I’m certainly sympathetic to people in this camp.
The B) camp has had barely a day to process their feelings about a shocking change of situation. I think they’re entitled to some rage and hurt for a period of time. When TaMara tried to give them a space for it, which I see nothing wrong with, I think it’s true that the a) camp came in and told them why they should feel differently. But at the same time, the B) camp has been telling the a) camp why *they* should feel differently, and should instead feel shitty about accepting an undemocratic process that trivializes their participation thus far.
We are not gonna get very far by telling each other how to feel. It’s just not gonna work. We’re definitely not going to get very far with outright hostilities. Let people mourn and grieve, and let people express their relief or happiness. Just keep on scrollng! It doesn’t cost you anything. We are not all gonna feel understood by each other, right now, and we don’t all need to.
WE ARE ALL IN THIS AGAINST TRUMP.
Please, can we let everyone feel the way they feel, and give the wounded some space, so that we move the fuck on and elect Democrats around this country?
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