Great comment from an earlier post: “Disagreements are healthy; personal attacks are not.”
99.99% of us on Balloon Juice are on the same side. We want to stop this authoritarian takeover, we want to keep our democracy, and we want to elect people who believe in democracy and want to make the world a better place. We want everyone to have civil rights and human rights.
That doesn’t mean we agree on how to get there, but we have to cooperate in order to keep the boat moving in the right direction.
The not-so-civil civil war that started in July? No matter where you landed in that civil war, and no matter who you think is at fault, it just doesn’t matter. Not to how we move forward. We are where we are and we all want to get the hell out of where we are and want to change the direction we are heading. We need to start rowing together.
The past is the past, it’s what we do now that matters.
The house is on fire, let’s not continue to bicker about whose fault it is that we didn’t have a plan in place for how we would all get out of the house safely if there was a fire and where we would meet up afterwards. Just get out of the fucking house alive. And make a plan for next time.
Speaking of fire, mistermix has been bringing the fire since the election, and I for one have greatly appreciated his voice. Even on the occasions that I haven’t agreed with him. Mistermix has his own unique voice. Betty Cracker has her voice. Anne Laurie has hers. I probably have mine, and Cole certainly has his, as do all the other front-pagers.
There was another great comment from an earlier post about all the free-floating anxiety many of us are experiencing. We knew what was at stake in the election, and the anxiety has only increased – exponentially so – since November. We have no power over the big stuff; we cannot stop the bulldozers, and when anxiety doesn’t have an outlet, if we’re not careful, it can come out sideways.
But you know what, we are fucking grown-ups. We can pick ourselves up and do better. There’s a saying in academia that the fights are so brutal because the stakes are so small. Is that what we’re doing here? Our world is crumbing and we cannot stop the bulldozers fast enough. Are we fighting over the scraps of who was right and who was wrong in July?
I will say again, right now, it just doesn’t matter who was right in July.
The past is the past, it’s what we do now that matters.
Update: Good start in the morning thread!


