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Dorothy is here tonight with her last set of reviews for the book categories.  Welcome Dorothy!  Sorry to see these end!

Before we get started, here’s a bonus song for today’s holiday.  We’ll classify this under humor.  h/t Geoduck

Memoir and Autobiography, History and Biography, Humor!

by Dorothy A. Winsor

This is the fifth and last post from my project to read and review a book from each category of Goodreads’ Best Book of the Year contest. The categories are Memoir and Autobiography, History and Biography, and Humor. I chose books from three interesting authors: Prince Harry, David Grann (who wrote Killers of the Flower Moon), and Henry “The Fonz” Winkler.

Memoir and Autobiography

I run into a lot of people who are writing memoirs. I can’t imagine doing it. Why would anyone want to read that level of detail about my life? But some people do draw that kind of interest, and one of them would be Prince Harry. So, from the semi-finalist list, I chose his memoir, Spare.

Spare was ghostwritten by J. R. Moehringer. His own memoir, The Tender Bar, won numerous awards and was made into a movie in 2022. He’s ghostwritten other memoirs including one for Andre Agassi. He also worked as a reporter and did work for which he won a Pulitzer. So, no surprise, the book is extremely well-written. (Note to self: If you are rich and want a ghost writer, hire the Pulitzer Prize winner.)

Prince Harry starts his story with his mother’s death. The themes that run through this book are there: the omnipresent paparazzi, the performance of royalty, the emotional isolation. I didn’t know that for years afterwards, Harry convinced himself Diana wasn’t dead, but rather had gone into hiding.

This is a tale of an abusive tabloid press by which Harry feels hounded, as his mother was. Among the events he mentions is Rupert Murdoch’s phone hacking scandal. My impression is that the UK papers are far worse at this than the US ones are, but I could be mistaken. He talks about what it’s like to have paparazzi watching his every move, and making up stories when they can’t find one that’s sufficiently interesting.

For him, this book is chance to tell his side of the story. Of course, we’re all biased when we tell our own stories, so I’m not sure I’d call this book the Truth with a capital T. But constant, not always truthful press coverage is a maddening aspect to his life, and I don’t blame him for his anger.

I was most interested in his account of his time in the army. He was deployed to Afghanistan twice, and not in comfy positions at a safe place. He seemed to do well in the army. One of the things he talks about late in the book is how unprepared he was for a life as a non-royal. He’d been infantilized by his sheltered life whether he wanted to be or not. His military service was the only place where he lived and worked at a normal life.

As I read, I found myself wondering if I should feel guilty for reading what is essentially royal gossip. Does that feed the appetite of the paparazzi? What is this interest we have in the lives of celebrities anyway? These are real people, not characters in a novel. Somehow the reality makes some people enjoy the story more. Celebrities seem to function as stories we make up for ourselves. I find it a little voyeuristic. And yet I chose the book.

History and Biography

Amazon.com: The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny and Murder eBook : Grann, David: Kindle Store

In this category, I chose The Wager by David Grann. The Wager is not the story of a bet. It’s the name of a British Navy ship that sank off the coast of Patagonia in the mid-eighteenth century. The surviving crew lived as castaways for months. Starving and uncertain of their own survival, many descended into anarchy and violence. Eventually, two groups of them managed to return to England, where they told competing stories of life on the island. Had the captain been incompetent or had the crew committed mutiny?

Grann describes life on a naval ship in fascinating detail. The Wager’s mission was to sail around Cape Horn and hunt a Spanish galleon that was known to be carrying treasure. Grann describes the catastrophic voyage, during which they were beset by problems ranging from storms to scurvy. And by the way, I hadn’t realized what a terrible disease scurvy was.

Grann’s account is based on journals in which several of the crew members recorded day to day observations. Through those accounts we get to know half a dozen crew members well enough that they become like characters in a novel.

This is a well-written story of how thin the veneer of civilization can be.

Humor

Here, I chose Henry Winkler’s memoir, Being Henry: The Fonz…and Beyond.

Amazon.com: Being Henry: The Fonz . . . and Beyond: 9781250888150: Winkler, Henry: Books

This book was not what I expected from the “Humor” category. I thought it would be comedy. Instead, it’s the memoir of a guy who rose to fame early in a sitcom and then had to figure out what to do with the rest of his life. He occasionally writes a funny line, but the story isn’t particularly funny.

Working with a co-writer, James Kaplan, Winkler tells parallel stories. In his public life as The Fonz, he reached world-wide fame. But in his private life, he struggled with dyslexia so severe that he couldn’t read. In the era in which he grew up, that meant even his parents and teachers accused him of being lazy or stupid, a message he internalized.

Winkler includes entertaining details about his work on Happy Days, including the episode in which Fonzie literally jumped the shark and thus gave birth to a meme. But when the eleven seasons were done, he was left with the fear that success like that might never come again. So, we read about him trying to avoid typecasting, working small jobs, doing voice work, doing anything he can. Eventually, he finds therapy and the “Barry” series, both of which provide some healing.

Also, by the time one of his own children turned out to be dyslexic, the world had a label for what was happening. For Winkler, that was an enormous insight and relief. To his list of odd jobs, he added co-writing a series of children’s books (Hank Zipster) about a dyslexic boy, based on his own memories.

For me, some of the most interesting parts of the book are his comments on acting. He talks about having to find the character in himself and needing to trust his own instincts. I found that similar to how writing often feels to me.

The Project: A Wrap Up

I’m happy I did this project. I read some books I otherwise would never even have heard of, and I enjoyed most of them. I learned some things, such as what life was like on a sailing ship or how acting feels when it’s done right. And doing the project gave me a sense of accomplishment. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading my reviews and also those by commenters. It’s always good when someone helps you find a good book.

Have you ever wanted to write a memoir? Do you follow royal gossip? (Where is Kate Middleton anyway?) We had a recent thread in which people recommended books, but go ahead and do it again if you’re so moved.

Thanks for hosting me, DAW.

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